I don’t think coachable means just but God. All think good come from God, but the coaching might come from someone acting in behalf of Him. If we are not listening and asking one easy but hard question, we may not be being fully coachable. The question to ask is simply “What am I supposed to learn from this?” An easier question to ask, with the same meaning is “What now?”. The answers come and not always in the way we want them to, but they come. Be prepared to accept and welcome the answers and go ahead question them. If you trust the answers are from God, they are easy to accept, Satan can also cause your mind to be foggy so that the answers seem cloud which can cause doubt. Elder Uchtdorf taught us one of the most profound ways to handle this by saying “Doubt your doubts before you doubt your faith.” —October 2024 General Conference.