Typically when we have a goal, we imagine what it will look like when we achieve it. But what would happen if we gave value to the journey toward the goal - the lessons we learn along the way, the changes that we make, the choices that impact those we love? Too often we become so singularly focused we fail to appreciate that while the goal is healthy and appropriate, we can't overlook the very things that may cause us to recognize who we are and how we show up as people, partners and parents. We are so much more than one role or purpose. No doubt our roles have often been our identity but we are so much than what we do. Our value is learned on our journey if we choose to pay attention to what works and what doesn't work in our lives and relationships. As you think about your children, ask yourself this question: How would I describe the essence of who I am and what I value about myself? I want to hear from you so please send me a few thoughts on what makes you the special person you are. No one is allowed to say they have nothing or they are nothing. I am here to support you so let me know if you get stuck and realize the journey is never smooth but it is always valuable.