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I help marriage-minded men & women effectively communicate and increase intimacy, achieving a resilient partnership that mirrors Christ's love.

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Conflict resolution God's way
Today I want to share a simple example of what healthy, God-honoring communication can look like in moments of tension. In a recent group interaction, I experienced something that felt uncomfortable to me. Instead of reacting in frustration or staying silent and carrying it internally, I chose to communicate directly and respectfully about my experience. My message was not about attacking anyone’s character or assigning shame. It was simply about being honest: ā€œThis is how that moment impacted me.ā€ What I’ve been learning is that conflict doesn’t have to lead to division or avoidance. It can be handled through clarity, humility, and accountability on both sides. We are responsible for how we show up, and we are also responsible for how we communicate when something doesn’t feel right. Healthy communication says: - I honor my experience enough to speak it - I honor the other person enough not to attack them - I leave space for accountability without control or condemnation This is something we all must continue to practice, I’m grateful for growth in this area. Peace doesn’t always mean silence; it can also mean truth spoken with love and self-respect. God never called us to abandon ourselves in relationships. What does God-honoring communication look like to you in moments of tension or misunderstanding?
Conflict resolution God's way
1 like • May 19
It looks just like this. Teaching folk how to treat me in a loving manner that brings us closer.
What does this statement bring up for you?
Emotionally mature love does not just pursue closeness. It takes responsibility for the impact of it's presence in your life. Let's Talk about it.
0 likes • May 19
@Sanura Dean I’m thinking…
1 like • May 19
When love is mature, it’s responsible in that you take the time to impact your loved one’s life. That’s being responsible. For instance, you make the effort to show love in their love language, to be patient when they don’t live up to your expectations and to be consistent with the God, kind of love no matter how they treat you. That’s being responsible for the impact in that personā€˜s life. That’s being mature in the God kind of love. Hope that makes sense.
SELF-LOVE CHALLENGE
For the rest of the week, here is my challenge to you. Post what doing daily to show yourself some love. Part of healing our relationship with ourselves is taking care of ourselves and loving on ourselves, so that we can be better to ourselves and for ourselves. You can post what you are doing here. Come back and see what others are doing, challenge each other, support each other. Most importantly, show up for you.
SELF-LOVE CHALLENGE
1 like • Apr 2
This past Sunday, I took time to sit and just relax. No thinking. No talking. Just listening to nature for a whole 30 minutes. It was wonderful. I hadn't realized how much my brain just ran throughout the day. No wonder I'm tired šŸ˜„ Last night after work, I did exactly what I wanted to do. I watched one episode of a series I started Tuesday with my kids. I told them I would watch it whenever I wanted to rather than waiting till we all watched it together again. I made time for me twice this week and it felt good.
Devotional: Complacency Is Costing You-It’s Time to Move
If you’ve been feeling stuck in your healing, your discipline, your boundaries, or your growth—this is your moment to shift. You are not powerless. You are not behind. And you are not called to live passively. This is your invitation to: ✨ Take your authority back ✨ Rebuild discipline in the areas you’ve been avoiding ✨ Step fully into who God has already called you to be Listen, and then Post in the comments: And what does the ā€˜real you’ do differently starting now?ā€ Remember: We’re not staying stuck. We’re arising. We’re moving. We’re becoming.
Devotional: Complacency Is Costing You-It’s Time to Move
1 like • Mar 20
Whew! Yes, my toes are stepped on real good. And they need to be! I recently finished reading What's the skinny? Simple Weight Loss & Fitness Tips for a Lifestyle of Health and Wellness by my friend and former pastor, Carmen D. Byars (girl, get the book!) and I have not done anything with it! So this is right on time. I have been tolerating additional weight on my body and I have authority over my body. I need to step back into my place of victory by taking action. Proverbs 1:32 reminded me that turning away from being intentional is backsliding. Read the AMP version! Whew! Me allowing the extra few pounds slowly drains me; it's comfort>calling for sure! So... What will I do starting now? be intentional about working out 4x per week and drinking nothing but water all day and stop eating at 8pm. Doing that will drop the extra pounds and maintain. I have to eat clean, too. (no more daily treats!)
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Tenisha Collins
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I help couples move past conflict and communication breakdowns to create a passionate, loving, divorce-proof marriage.

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Joined Mar 20, 2026
Los Angeles, CA