I think this has the potential to be complex. I grew up being bullied non-stop and also my mom was a "feminazi" who hated men, she told my sister and I that we were the reason she was overweight and she told us that stay at home moms were dumb, fat and all they did all day was watch soap operas. So I guess being fit is a rebellion against all of that. Please I learnt along the way from an early age that endurance sports (running, biking and swimming) can sustain you when you are under stress. Needless to say, many of the girls who bullied me are back in Nova Scotia and weigh between 200-250 lbs (very sad). 😂😂🤣 So who is the loser now??? You asked for honesty. Of course, later in life you realize the full benefits of maintaining fitness, better health, more endurance than my teenagers friends, healthy way to exert hyper-ness, etc.