Father God. Today I thank you for another day. Lord in this moment I pray for this new journey I am about to explore with my oldest. We will be starting therapy in about an hour and I am nervous but I know the Hold Spirit will be present and help our family understand each other a bit more. Thank you God for your mercy today and always. Amen!🙏🏽

Many parents carry the weight of multiple roles...nurse, taxi driver, teacher, chef, breadwinner, counsellor. It’s easy to slip into autopilot or fall prey to negative self‑talk: “I’m failing.” “I can’t get through today.” Scripture calls us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. This doesn’t mean faking positivity but choosing, with God’s help, to replace lies with truth. When your mind tells you that you’re not enough, remind yourself that God says you are His workmanship and dearly loved. When you’re tempted to speak harshly to yourself or your children, pause and ask, “Would these words honour God?” If not, choose silence, a walk, or a prayer. Small shifts matter stepping outside for fresh air, putting on a worship song, or texting a friend for prayer can redirect your thoughts. Over time these choices train your mind to align with God’s view of you and your family, helping you parent from peace rather than panic.

Kingdom parents, Every year on May 31st, we celebrate the Everything Parent Award in honor of Frances Marie Williams. This is not just another post or something we scroll past. This is a movement. My grandmother, Frances Marie Williams, raised me. She was my everything. She did everything, even when it was hard, even when nobody saw it, even when she had every reason to give up. And when I look at this community, I see her in so many of you. Parents who are tired but still show up, healing while raising others, carrying a past and still pushing forward, parents who don’t have it easy but refuse to quit. So on May 31st, we honor that. We honor you. This is how we’re showing up. You wake up intentional. Not rushing, not overwhelmed, not pouring into everyone else first. You get dressed, do your hair, get your nails done, put on something that makes you feel good. You take yourself out, whether it’s to eat, to sit in peace, or just to enjoy your own presence. You take pictures, real ones, proud ones, the kind that say “I made it through some things.” I will be sending out certificates to every parent who signs up, because you deserve to be recognized. Then we show the world. You post your pictures, you tag the community, you send them to me, and I’m going to share them so the world can see what strength really looks like, what resilience looks like, what “everything” really looks like. We celebrate everything else in this world. Now it’s time to celebrate ourselves. If you’re joining this movement, drop your name below. This is your moment. Don’t sit this one out. Because May 31st belongs to the parents who never gave up. In honor of Frances Marie Williams, let’s show the world what “everything” really looks like.

Life has been crazy lately. But I want to say I am thankful to God for allowing me to find this community. I some how don't feel so alone through this journey. I see others are also in uniquely similar situations. We have been replaying the Kingdom University albums on Apple Music and it has been allowing my family to worship and spend time together ( we love music). Blessings to all of you!!

Let’s get practical. Because a lot of people hear “renew your mind” But nobody really explains HOW. So what happens? You wake up… And the SAME thoughts come back. The same frustration. The same triggers. The same mindset. And now you’re trying to parent… from a mind that was never reset. So let’s break this down simple. 🔥 1. Catch the thought You cannot change what you don’t notice. When your child does something and your mind says: “I’m overwhelmed” “I can’t do this” “they’re too much” STOP. Catch it. 🔥 2. Check the thought Ask yourself: “Is this helping me lead right now?”Because just because you FEEL it…doesn’t mean you should FOLLOW it. 🔥 3. Replace the thought You don’t just remove it… you replace it. Instead of “I can’t do this” You say “God gave me this child, so I CAN do this.” Instead of “They’re too much” You say “I just need a better system.” Instead of “I’m overwhelmed” You say “I need a reset, not a breakdown.” 🔥 4. Move differently Because real change is not just thinking…it’s ACTION. You don’t just say “I’m going to be patient.” You lower your tone You shorten your words If you don’t control your thoughts…your thoughts will control your home. Because how you THINK…is how you respond. And how you respond… is how your home is built. So no… this isn’t about being perfect.This is about being intentional with your thoughts, your words and your actions Because your children don’t just need correction… they need a parent who is mentally disciplined. Let’s talk: What is ONE thought you struggle with daily as a parent?