How multiple back surgeries shaped the way I wanna show up
6 years ago, I had my first back surgery. I was stuck in bed for months. Couldnโt walk. Couldnโt work. Couldnโt distract myself with โbusy.โ When you canโt move, you think...And I started asking bigger questions. Like.. โWhy am I working the way I do?โ โWho am I building this for?โ โWhat kind of life do I actually want?โ It took 3 more surgeries to really get it: The real cost wasnโt the pain. It was how I was spending my time. I realized Iโd built a business that depended on me feeling fine. In the end, that wasnโt a business. It was a liability. So I stripped it down, and rebuilt it around simplicity, leverage, and margin. I made it a business that fits the life I want. I realized that you donโt need to burn out to prove your value. The most important is you need to build like someone who matters. Because life *will* slow you down eventually. Might as well build something that works before it does. I'm not sharing that part of my life for sympathy, I wouldn't wish 4 surgeries on anyone. But I also wouldnโt trade what they taught me, about time, value, and resilience.