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Stop Breaking Promises to Yourself
The art of not breaking promises to yourself is massive. Every time you say you’re going to do something and then don’t follow through, it chips away at your confidence. Not because you’re lazy.Not because you’re weak.But because deep down, you know you’ve let yourself down. I’ve made this mistake loads of times. I overcommit. I set myself too many disciplines.I say I’m going to do ten things at once. Then when I don’t keep up with it all, I beat myself up and wonder why I feel low. But that’s the lesson. Stop making promises to yourself that you can’t realistically keep. Start smaller.Keep your word trust with yourself again. Because every time you follow through, even on something tiny, you rebuild your character. Treat yourself like you would your best mate. You wouldn’t constantly lie and let them down, you wouldn’t speak to them the way you speak to yourself. So don’t do it to you. Self-love comes first. Keep fighting the good fight
Stop Breaking Promises to Yourself
0 likes • 14d
Thank you for this Alfie, I beat myself up too much for what I haven’t done, when I should celebrate the wins xxx
Welcome to everyone who’s recently joined 👊
You’re not here by accident. This space is for people who want more from themselves and their life. Not when things have already fallen apart… but before they get there. We’re big on prevention here. Because the truth is, mental health doesn’t just break overnight. It builds, quietly, over time. So this is where you get ahead of it. Inside here you’ve got: • A growing library of courses to help you level up mentally, physically, and emotionally • Weekly Zoom sessions covering mindset, fitness, meditation, addiction, and more • A community of people who actually get it • A space where you can be honest, real, and yourself… no judgement, no masks This isn’t about being perfect. It’s about showing up, doing the work, and becoming someone you’re proud of. No pressure. But also… no excuses. Get involved. Join a session. Say hello. Start somewhere. Because nothing changes if nothing changes. Let’s build. 💪
0 likes • Apr 8
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Group Fit
Great little session @Alfie Ruffell @Linzi Brayley @Ben Bailey @Craig Steele @Harrison Goring. See you all in a couple of weeks 💪🏼💚
2 likes • Apr 7
Good turn out tonight then Simon 🥰 hopefully in a couple of weeks I’ll be fully recovered from my op, if not the one after xxx
1 like • Apr 7
@Simon Flannery oh yeah, I’m definitely getting better each day now. Gradually going to increase my activity when I feel comfortable, I’ve had such a rough time being in pain 😢 and the not being able to do much after the op has been hard. My abdominals will 100% need some work when healed! Xxxx
challenge No.3
so… who’s coming tomorrow morning??
0 likes • Mar 29
How was it? I’m still recovering at the moment can’t wait to see you all xxxx
Hospital
I’m in hospital guys I’ve been really struggling in pain, I’ve been so unwell with intense stomach cramps (I was in non stop pain all night and have only managed an hour or so this afternoon) and unable to keep drink or food down at the moment. They think I might need my gallbladder removed but still waiting on scans to confirm. Lots of love everyone xxxx
Hospital
0 likes • Mar 22
They’ve confirmed it’s gallstones, may be having surgery tomorrow xxx
0 likes • Mar 26
I’m recovering at my mums now, they removed my gallbladder and went fine. In lots of pain but going in the right direction xxxx
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Shannon Woodman
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Be yourself, everyone else is taken 🌻

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