this one's for u ... ghosting me is wild when u literally asked ME a question first… 😂 and I don't mean like oh they got just busy or life happened or whatever… I mean 𝗙𝗨𝗟𝗟 𝗢𝗡 𝗣𝗢𝗢𝗙 𝗩𝗔𝗡𝗜𝗦𝗛𝗘𝗗 𝗢𝗙𝗙 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗙𝗔𝗖𝗘 𝗢𝗙 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗛 disappeared… like where the effers like did u go… did u fall down a well… did aliens take u… did u move countries and forget to mention it… 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗛𝗔𝗣𝗣𝗘𝗡𝗘𝗗… 😂 someone messages me… e.g. can u send me the details of the retreat … can u send me the link… can u tell me more… and because I'm a normal human who actually gives a sh*t I stop what I'm doing and I go find the thing and write the thing and send the thing THEY ASKED FOR obvs… and then… absolutely naff all… not a thank u… not a got it… not a not for me… not even a lazy thumbs up… just tumbleweed central and silence and me sat here going… k then… and before anyone gets a twitchy on… NO this is not about buying… I don't think anyone owes me a sale… I really don't… but I do think we've somehow completely lost the art of just basic human communication and that does my absolute nut in… 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲'𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗴𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗻… and this might sting a tad… most people aren't ghosting because they don't know what to say… they know EXACTLY what they want to say… they just don't want to feel uncomfortable saying it… maybe they don't want to say they can't afford it… they don't want to say they've changed their mind… they don't want to say not for me… so instead they say NOUT and disappear and somehow think that's the kinder option… IT IS NOT… + 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲'𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗶𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗴𝗲𝘁𝘀 𝗺𝗲… I'd put money on it that some of the people doing the ghosting are the EXACT same people sat there going why does nobody reply to MY stuff… why does nobody give ME a straight answer… why does nobody tell ME where they stand…ooffff juicy shit hey… … the balls start with u… the communication starts with u… the honesty starts with u… every single damn time u dodge one of those tiny uncomfortable conversations u are weakening the exact muscle u need to sell… to set boundaries… to ask for what u want… to actually SAY THE THING… it is ALL the same bloody muscle and u either use it or u don't…

I'm doing something a little bit new and I want to be totally transparent about it because that's just… me. obvs. IYKYK😂 so here's the deal. I've spent nearly 30 years bringing people together. dance floors. yoga studios. Facebook groups. Skool communities. in person. online. doesn't matter where — I have always been the one making spaces come alive. making people feel seen. starting the conversations. building the connections that turn into something real. and recently I had a proper lightbulb moment. ooofff. 💡(more deets here) I realised that what lights me up the most isn't teaching people HOW to do this anymore. it's actually DOING it. being IN the community. every single day. making it happen in real time… 𝘀𝗼 𝗜'𝘃𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝗻𝗴𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁. 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗦𝗸𝗼𝗼𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗲𝘀. going INTO people's spaces and making them come alive. welcoming members. starting real conversations. Conversions. building the kind of culture that makes people actually WANT to show up. I've already got one inquiry and I'm potentially taking on my first client tomorrow which is exciting af. woop… BUT. I want more of this. and I want to find the right people. and I want to do it in a way that feels completely aligned with who I am, which means no sleazy cold DM nonsense. pfffttt. not a chance. 😂 so far I've put it out on LinkedIn and Facebook and that's kinda it. I'm pretty new to LinkedIn if I'm being honest so I'm still finding my feet over there… 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗜 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘂𝗿 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 if u were me… where would u be showing up to find community owners who need this? would u be going into specific communities and sharing what u do? would u be reaching out to people directly? and if so how would u do it without it feeling gross? 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗰 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝘀 𝗼𝗿 𝘀𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗼𝘄𝗻𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁? OR… are u someone with a Skool community that needs this kind of support? OR… are u someone with a Skool community that needs this kind of support? holla at me. 👀

𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗢𝗡𝗘'𝗦 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗜𝗦𝗦 𝗧𝗔𝗞𝗘𝗥𝗦. 𝗨 𝗞𝗡𝗢𝗪 𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗨 𝗔𝗥𝗘… I am kind. I am PROUD AF to be kind. it is one of the things I like most about myself and I will never eva apologise for it duh… but I need to talk about something that don’t get said an awful lot in business… because there are peeps out there who see kindness and think… easy target. (Well they dont quite think those words maybe, but u get the gist) and I've had enough of staying quiet about it….LFG 𝗶𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀… - u extend a payment plan because someone's going through something and ur beautiful damn luvly July heart says help them… and then one day they just… stop. no message. no explanation. just gone. and ur sat there holding the bill for ur own generosity grrrr - it looks like a 60 minute call that becomes 2 hours 17 mins because u big time care and u don't wanna to cut them off… and they start expecting 2 hours every time without ever acknowledging what ur giving. - it looks like replying at all hours because ur passionate overload and u care about their result duh… and suddenly ur available 24/7 whether u agreed to that or not. - it looks like doing extra work outside the scope because u WANT them to succeed obvs… and watching that extra effort get taken for granted so quietly u almost don't notice until ur burning out. - it looks like saying "pay me when u can" because u trust someone… and learning that trust meant absolutely nothing to them… - it looks like going above and beyond. again. and again. and again. and one day realising they don't even fricken notice anymore because ur generosity has become their standard… - it looks like overriding ur gut because u wanted to see the best in someone… ignoring the red flags because u totes believed in their potential… staying way past the point u should have left because ur not a quitter and u don't give up on people. - it looks like vouching for someone to ur network and watching them let u down.

I updated this ABOUT ME thing... well coz I'm not the same woman who wrote the first version. and pretending otherwise would be complete bollocks. so here's the real one today... It's Me. Mimi. Woop if ur epic I've been doing the same work my entire life. same work. different rooms. dance studio… getting people out of their heads and into their bodies… stop overthinking… FEEL it… own the space… be seen… woop… yoga… helping people slow the noise down… reconnect to themselves… trust what was already sitting inside them… business… community… same. bloody. thing. if I ever 😂 because here's what I know after nearly half a century of doing this… people don't need more information. they don't need another strategy. they don't need another PDF or another course or another "5 steps to grow ur audience" post that could've been written by literally anyone about literally anything. pfffttt. fck that. what they need is to find their people. say their thing. do it their own fricken way. and build something real around it. 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧'𝗦 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀. not the fake kind. not the "how many peas can u see" engagement bait nonsense that makes me want to actually cry a little inside. 😂 but REAL community. where people connect. have real conversations. support each other. challenge each other. buy from each other. show up for each other even on the hard days. 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀. 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀. 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀. 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗼𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿. 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗼𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿. and I've been building that since before it was cool. dance floors. yoga studios. Facebook groups. Skool communities. in person retreats in Bali. doesn't matter where. I have always been the one going… right. let's get everyone in a room. let's make something happen. let's actually DO this together. 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗼𝗴𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿. 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀. 🔥 now. the transparency bit. because I'm not one to fake ass anything and there are too many people in this industry who do and honestly it makes me want to… well… let's just say it doesn't sit well with me. 😂

𝗪𝗢𝗢𝗣𝗦 + 𝗪𝗜𝗡𝗦 🎉 Woke up this morning to a sale for 1 MILLION. I know. I know. OOOFFF take a breath. sounds pretty bloody impressive don't it B4 u start imagining me sipping cocktails on a yacht somewhere in Bali, well I am in Bali so that bit tracks obvs, I should probably mention it was 1 million Indonesian Rupiah. IDR. which works out at approx £44. STILL THOUGH. a WOOP is a WOOP ain't it and I will absolutely fricken take it. and here's the thing that gets me about so much stuff online right now because I see it ALL the time and it does my head in a tad Someone says they made a million and peeps lose their damn minds. but a million WOT DA FCK though someone says they had their best month ever and ur sat there going oh god and comparing urself and spiralling a little bit. but compared to what exactly hmmm. someone says they're fully booked. doing what actually. for how long. at what price. someone says they scaled to six figures. over how long. with what expenses. are they even still there. 𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥𝗬𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡𝗚. 𝗜𝗦. 𝗦𝗨𝗕𝗝𝗘𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗩𝗘. and meanwhile we're sat there comparing our chapter 3 to someone else's chapter 47 highlight reel and wondering why we feel a bit flat and a bit behind and a bit like wtf am I even doing. oooffff. I feel that. I've been that. still have moments, I am human duh ME though. Mimi. right here. this is what I'll be celebrating today and every day 👇 I'll celebrate the £44 obvs because it landed and someone said yes and that matters. I'll celebrate the enquiry even if it didn't convert because something I said or did made someone think yes I want more of that and that's not nothing. I'll celebrate the comment because someone took their actual time out of their actual day to say something and that's a gift. I'll celebrate the person who finally hit publish on the post they'd been overthinking for 3 fricken weeks - U KNOW WHO U ARE - woop 🎉 I'll celebrate the wobble that didn't knock me down even though it tried. I'll celebrate the Monday that felt hard and heavy and happened anyway.