Lately, I’ve been reflecting on the work I get to do with parents and caregivers, and what stands out most to me isn’t “progress” in the traditional sense. It’s the moments when parents feel safe enough to pause. Safe enough to say, “This is hard,” or “I’m not sure what to do here.” That willingness doesn’t come from having it all figured out — it comes from being met with empathy rather than judgment. Many of the parents I support are exhausted, unsure, and carrying a lot of self-doubt. And still, in the middle of that, they show up. Sometimes that looks like curiosity. Sometimes it looks like frustration. Sometimes it looks like just staying in the room when things feel messy. All of it counts. This is the kind of work I care most about: meeting people where they are, without expectations of readiness or change. I don’t believe parents need to be reflective, calm, or regulated to deserve support. I believe those things emerge when people feel understood and supported over time. I’m feeling grateful for the trust parents place in me, and clear about the kind of spaces I want to help create — ones where struggle is allowed, learning is shared, and connection comes before correction. If you’re in a season that feels heavy, uncertain, or unfinished, you belong here too.

This one is about what connection actually looks like in real life — not in calm moments, but in the messy ones. The outbursts. The shutdowns. The power struggles that sneak up on us. Instead of focusing on how a child should respond, this lesson stays with what we can hold steady as the adult — our pace, tone, presence, and internal state. If you’ve ever wondered: - “Am I making this worse?” - “Should I be doing more right now?” - “Why does connection feel harder when I care the most?” You’re not alone — and this lesson is for you. 🔗 Lesson 4: Connection in Real-Life Moments 💬 If you feel like sharing: Which moment feels hardest in your home right now — big emotions, quiet withdrawal, or power struggles? No fixing. Just noticing.

How are you doing today — like, really doing? In your body, your energy, your nervous system? Some days feel steady. Some feel heavy. Some feel like quiet progress. All of it belongs here. 👇 Please comment with one of the following: • one word that describes today • a small win you don’t want to overlook • something that’s been weighing on you • or simply “here” to let us know you’re present Thanks for being here!

Welcome to everyone who’s joined recently — I’m really glad you’re here. This space is for parents and caregivers who want to better understand behaviour, boundaries, and relationships without pressure to perform or “get it right.” You’re welcome to read quietly, reflect, jump into conversation, or come and go at your own pace. Please introduce yourself in the comments: - Who you’re parenting or caring for (age is enough — no details needed) - One thing that’s been feeling heavy lately, or one small win you’ve noticed - What drew you here - And if today isn’t a sharing day, that’s okay too. Being here counts. I’ll be sharing reflections, practical insights, and classroom resources throughout the week. For now, settle in — this space is meant to feel supportive, not demanding. Welcome this week too: @Jed McPherson @Daisy Tech @Marije Wagenmakers @Sarah Ellis @Pascal Verville @Alison St. Romain 🤍

Ever notice how some moments escalate the more you try to help? This lesson is about learning to recognize when connection matters most — before moving into explanations, limits, or problem-solving. We explore patterns like: • emotions going big • everything going quiet • the same conflict repeating • your own body tensing up — Which one shows up most in your home right now? 👉 Read the lesson here: https://www.skool.com/the-grove-collective-6044/classroom/97bbb4ae?md=80d472bff4c84840a41879f2c311fd74