Galatians 5:16-17 NIV [16] So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. [17] For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want. "If it feels good in an instant, it likely isn't good for you." Charlie Kirk I think one of the main differences between "boy" and "man" is the ability to deny the flesh. To delay instant gratification, to be patient, to put off for later what I want right now. My flesh is absolutely weak and I don't want that to be so, but it is. Whether that's food and drink or purchasing something or blowing up at my family so I feel heard, my flesh wants right now. Boys consume, Men contribute.