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When is enough enough?
Cutting to the chase with no enticing hook, huge promises, or fantastic offer. Here’s a question: “When is enough enough?” Now all you over-thinkers stop the analysis, categorizing, compartmentalizing and risk assessment—answer the question. Just doing that is certainly in itself a most difficult tasking, huh? There are many questions every man faces daily that require responses. But, here, I’m asking about the questions you ask yourself and the answers that surface. Pro Tip: long term or chronic unanswered questions lead to dysfunctional distraction, depression, frustration and confusion. Broad river to cross when discussing the logistics and strategy required to answer these questions. I’m not side tracking there for now. Here’s the right now focus—the question that is the background music for our discussion today —“When is enough enough?” It certainly seems that the space between the question and answer can be the toughest space to navigate. That topography is some of the toughest we face. So start here. For now, let’s start with you and God (Hashem, Abba, YHVW). “What’s enough for Him?” Then, the same for you, “What’s enough for you?” Ground rules: 1. “I don’t know” is not an answer. 2. No response is a response. 3. No baffling with bull. Respond and then tag another to respond. If they’re not in the FS Skool community invite them to join the convo. Here’s the link: Join the FS Skool conversation. barry/fs
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For a few years, things in my life seemed overwhelming, paralysis by analysis. I was terrified that the choice i would make was not on God's path for me or my family. That making the wrong choice would push me further away. What I didnt know then and have since realized, if I didnt move, God couldn't direct my steps. Not my words, I read that recently, and suddenly it flashed. Like you said, no response is still a response and not moving, not stepping out is still a choice. When the point came, God finally put the choice so obvious that even in my frozen state I could see it was time to step out. Then the fear, anxiety, all of it vanished. Not because of an actual decision I concously made, but God had made the path so clear nothing else could be heard or seen. Looking back, that time was needed to resolve some issues, but more importantly it has grown me in Him! Im sure the fear and anxiety will try to attack again, but NOW I have what I was taught and can fight back like never before. When is enough enough? When God decided my fear and anxiety, and anger was enough, He said it was enough and did something I couldn't do. When is enough enough, when He says so, we just need to listen to our Father and LET Him work in and through us.
You Really Shouldn't Miss This One
Meet one of the new co-hosts of the FS pod "Teach Me To Father." Our friend and brother absolutely crushed it! You should listen share and tell me what you think!
3 likes • Jul 1
Great podcast! Its a God thing for you to be able to look back and see how God has led you here. How your fathers added to the man you're becoming. Awesome!
Pressured To Decide In The Dark
Men often struggle most with pressure, isolation, and internal confusion in hard times and seasons, leading to rushed, reactive, or avoidant decision-making rather than slowed, prayerful discernment. #1 of 8 Pressure to “be decisive” and not show weakness. Many men carry an internal script that says: - real men decide quickly - don’t hesitate - don’t ask for help Cultural pressure pushes them toward: - snap decisions - overconfidence - pretending they are sure when they are actually confused or afraid of the outcome and consequences.  Key decision-making effects: - Emotions and body signals ignored–treating feelings as a threat instead of data  - Seeking counsel is avoided ________________ “What do you do next?” “What is your best calculated, productive, fruitful way to respond?” barry/fs
Pressured To Decide In The Dark
3 likes • Jun 29
There have been times I have been caught in the "paralysis of analysis". I would over analyze the issue and end up not making one or making one out of fear. In recent years, its been Godly council that has moved me past that phase. That council has helped reset that fear of making bad or wrong decisions and helped me learn to ask for Godly help. Helped relearn to listen to God's voice in making the right choice vs just making one or ignoring the choice completely. Don't underestimate how important council from Godly men is!!
2 likes • Jun 19
Normally NIV, but I cross reference it with the KJV.
2 likes • Jun 19
@Mitchell Van Lannen thought on the apocryphal books in the Ethiopian Bible? I have a KJV Bible that has them in the back. Been back and forth if they are God inspired or just historical.
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1 like • Jun 11
See you all there!
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Roger Behnke
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Husband, dad, bumpa. Loving Jesus, living where God found us a home! 10 years active Navy, Homesteader wannabe.

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