What to say in your intro? Share where you're from, your reason for joining, perhaps your favorite fragrance, watch or a picture of you dressed sharp! It's a small action, but a HUGE step in you getting value from this community becasue you go from being a lurker to an ACTIVE member. In fact men that introduce themselves are 10X more likely to the actions to becoming their best selves. Bonus Point - By introducing yourself you're guaranteed to level-up. Seriously, you'll get at least 5-20 likes/points (oftentimes more) which will move you to level 2 and possibly level 3. And just like that you have access to more of this community!

“When I became a man…I put away childish things.” - St. Paul. I’m trying to grow my collection of suits. Only problem is my money is all tied up in my business. If you’re in the Charlotte NC area and you have extra suits you don’t fit into anymore let me know we can work out a deal.

I remember when I was a logistics coordinator at a major pottery distributor there was one ocean freight rep that would always be decked out in a suit and tie, nice shoes, and a pocket square. He was super knowledgeable and could answer any questions. It’s been years since I have been in that role but I still remember that guy. So my question is: do you think wearing a suit, and I mean suit specifically not just nice clothes, can or has helped you close sales?

Gents, before we move too far into 2026, I want you to pause and look back intentionally. 1️⃣ Last Year Wins What’s 1–3 wins from last year you’re proud of? Doesn’t have to be massive. Progress counts — consistency, discipline, better decisions. Style upgrade you stuck with? A fragrance you finally made your signature? A watch milestone, collection refinement, or learning moment? A habit you strengthened, a distraction you cut, or a standard you raised 2️⃣ This Year’s Focus What’s 1–2 goals you’re deliberately committing to this year - not wishing for, but committing to? Could be... Sharpening your personal style as a form of self-respect Building a tighter, more intentional fragrance rotation Becoming more educated, patient, and disciplined with watches Showing up with more consistency - physically, mentally, and professionally Raising your standards in how you present yourself to the world Drop your wins and your focus below. Let’s build on what worked. And cut what didn’t!

Red for the holiday.