Behind the scenes I've been developing a program focused on helping women who struggle with navigating difficult conversations with their spouse. That was me....for AGES. I hated the slightest risk of conflict, so rather than speaking up, I kept things buried. Turned out this aversion to conflict was a pattern based on a belief I'd formed as a little girl. My mother left the family when I was 10 yrs old. My dad raised my two younger brothers and I mostly on his own. Here's the thing, though. When I saw them fight, and then mum left (I just came home from school one day and she was gone) - I created an equation in my 10yr old mind "If two people who love each other fight - one of them will leave." Several years into my marriage - that belief had entrenched itself in my thinking. I was terrified that if we got into a fight - my husband would leave. So I was always a peacekeeper, at the expense of being my authentic self. I am very grateful to God that he led me through completely reframing that false belief and teaching me HIS way to be. So - that's the origin story of what I created. However, I don't want to "assume" that it's what most women would find value in. So to explore this more fully and validate (or give me a different steer) what I've developed, I invite you to complete a survey I've created. In the survey, the questions take you through some reflections on your marriage. Your voice matters and it will be instrumental in helping others along the way. 💞 👇 Click the link and it will take you straight to it. https://forms.gle/XDGa3QksiZmYBKpTA

One of the reasons why I created this space was to grow the community I wish I had around me when my husband's mental health spiralled, leading to a diagnosis of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I also LOVE developing practical resources to use that have come from my own story, and 'aha' moments I discover as I continue to learn. It's a deep desire I have to help lighten the load being carried, in some small way. So if you haven't had the chance yet, head over to the Classroom to find those resources. I've got more coming! For now, in this video I share a bit more of my story and the "aha" moments I had along the way. Let me know in the comments what resonated, or, share a pivotal moment that you experienced that helped you. 👇

Let's welcome our newest members to the group! @Leah Wells 🙋‍♀️ @Dee Mary 🥳 @Helen Ling 😁 @Priscilla Lowe 🤩 @Stuart Alcock 🤗 Great to have you here. If you haven't already done so yet, explore the classroom to find the current resources available. Find a post that resonates, pop in a comment to share your thoughts/views. Or jump into the pinned post [START HERE] Welcome to the group! and pop a response there in the poll.

...conscious that each of us in this community are navigating all KINDS of challenges. Here it is: "Trust only in God every moment! Tell him all your troubles and pour your heart-longings to him. Believe me when I tell you - he will help you!" The Passion Translation: Psalm 62:8

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