Salaam moe3alekome dear sisters❣️On what kind of platform/app are you searching for your new spouse or found your spouse? I would love to hear from you.
Wa alaykum salam lovely 💕 I'm on Muzz. It has the most users, so more potentials you can filter through. It does attract unserious men but I have found adding 'I will involve my wali.....' on my profile has helped to deter unserious guys. I know a handful of sisters who found their spouse on it, you just need to have strong boundaries, a clear strategy and be patient. I also tried Sunnah Match. Pro: Most halal option, it attracts more serious/ practising brothers. Cons: feels a little passive since you're waiting on guys to message your mahram before you can communicate. I have friends who also tried it and all of us found the men don't message our mahram at all/ delay doing so, so you can't progress as quickly in comparison to Muzz. But still worth trying. I've tried Pure Matrimony- not popular so less potentials available but again still worth trying. I would avoid Salam as they have been bought out by a zio company. Using apps can be a bit daunting. But I've found having a clear plan e.g. focusing on quality matches over quantity, communicating expectations, meeting with mahram quickly instead of texts/calls back and forth, seeking guidance from Allah and asking for His protection etc makes the journey easier. Have you also tried speaking to friends/ family/ colleagues/ sisters at your local masjid to see if they could recommend anyone? I am shameless so I tell everyone I am looking lol. I pray Allah swt blesses you with what is best for you and makes your path easy 🥰