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15 contributions to 2.0 | Growth Without Burnout
Abundance Isn’t Neutral
Abundance doesn’t automatically mean good. What matters is what you bring into the space when abundance arrives. If you hold: fear → abundance becomes pressure scarcity → abundance becomes anxiety unhealed patterns → abundance becomes chaos But if you hold: regulation → abundance becomes safety self-trust → abundance becomes freedom boundaries → abundance becomes sustainable Abundance amplifies what’s already there. It doesn’t fix it. 2.0 isn’t about calling more in. It’s about upgrading what you’re holding when it comes. 👇 Reflection: What are you carrying into your abundance space right now?
Abundance Isn’t Neutral
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Hey everyone, just to share a bit of the backstory behind this post: Lately, I’ve been going through a rough patch with a bipolar episode, and it hit me that I was holding a lot of abundance—just not the kind that felt positive or healthy. I realized I needed to reset and recalibrate those aspects to find some real regulation. I’m still working on it, and that’s why I’m sharing this with you all—because we’re all doing the work together. Thanks for being here.
🤍 A gentle note to this space
I just wanted to share a small update with you all, with openness and care. In honouring what this space stands for — honesty, gentle growth, and safety — I’m going to be taking a short step back from posting while I prioritise my own journey for a moment. Living with bipolar comes in waves, and this is one of those times where slowing down is part of staying well. I’ll still be keeping an eye on messages and responding in my own time, and please continue to use this space exactly as it’s intended — to share, reflect, connect, and support one another. This community doesn’t pause just because I do. I’ll be posting again soon. Right now, I’m choosing to honour this moment so that when I do show up, I can do so from a place that’s safe, grounded, and stable — for myself and for everyone here. A gentle reminder for you too:Your journey doesn’t need to look consistent to be valid. Growth happens in phases — forward movement, rest, reflection, and repair all count. Honouring where you are today is not giving up; it’s self-respect. Please be gentle with yourself, especially in the quieter seasons. Thank you for being here, for holding this space with care, and for allowing humanity to exist alongside growth.Sending you all love and support 🤍
The Rescuer vs The silenced self
I learned to survive by rescuing. I learned to stay by staying quiet. But the part of me I silenced didn’t disappear — it turned into anxiety, grief, and exhaustion. This is what shadow integration actually looks like. Not fixing yourself. Letting yourself speak.
The Rescuer vs The silenced self
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100% agree, the mind is so wonderful yet it is so self preserving that it can create these beliefs that altimately don't corrilate with the reality of the situation at hand.
Who else has had this
POV: You're having a full-on chat with your favorite person (you), and someone catches you mid-monologue. Cue that awkward moment when they think you're talking to them, and you're like: 'Oh no, just having a meeting with my inner committee!
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Im glad it's not just me haha
What You’re Ready to Release
Here is a shaddow work prompt to get your day started, remember to take your time and be gentle with yourself when answering these.
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