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Send some Love
I don't usually contribute until I answer a question but I am in a very dark place emotionally right now due to a bad situation. I am feeling very low and vulnerable and a little scared I will end up back in a mental health respite unit . Please send me some prayer or healing whatever it is I just need to heal .🙏
1 like • 10h
@Lee Patterson This is undoubtedly a really scary time scared to live and scared to die . You both have held so much love , you both give without reservation and that is rare . Wish you guys lived closer I would be buying you both coffee 💙💙
Connection Has No Rules Only Signals
Connection Has No Rules Only Signals this is the space where Sherry and I Dwell... Most of us were taught that connection is something you do right. Say the right thing. Feel the right amount. Be vulnerable but not too much. Need support but don’t need it like that. Those aren’t rules of connection. They’re rules of survival. True healing happens in a very different space a nervous system to nervous system space where connection isn’t negotiated, measured, or earned. It’s felt. Your nervous system doesn’t speak in logic. It speaks in signals. • I need to be held. • I need to soften without being fixed. • I need to be vulnerable without owing anything back. • I need presence, not performance. When those signals are met even quietly something profound happens: your system begins to reorganize itself around safety instead of protection. This is why connection doesn’t have rules. Rules belong to the mind. Connection belongs to the body. In a truth space of healing, nothing is transactional. You don’t share to get approval. You don’t open to be validated. You don’t regulate so someone stays. You are met because you exist. And when connection is no longer something you have to manage, deep love grows naturally not just toward others, but toward yourself. Love stops being a strategy and becomes a state. This is the work. Not learning how to relate “better.” But remembering how to stay when your system says, this matters. No rules. Only signals. Only truth. Only connection. Take a moment before moving on what signal is your nervous system giving you right now? A picture of me Daddy for at least a like for him! on his birthday this past Dec! Love you Dad!
Connection Has No Rules Only Signals
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My nervous system has been replaced by drugs in recent weeks and although they are legal I need to find other ways of coping .
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Struggling with letting go of abusive situations that I know are no good for me . Struggling with allowing vulnerability and allowing others just to meet me where I am and sit with me in my pain .
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@Lee Patterson The flu was brutal so much so I got myself a vaccine after as I work in Adult Social Care I didn't want to pass it on to those more frail than me . The tooth is due to come out on Wednesday 12pm BMT . I have been on heavy duty meds for pain but it is coming out and has to go .
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@Lee Patterson Thankyou . I have so much love and respect for you both . I have been watching some episodes of your journey . It has been making good tv time 😊
Snowed in!
Who else out there is snowed in? we are in the middle of the snow, already got about 10+ inches and it wont stop until tonight, the animals are bored. Lee and I are giving the day to the couch and lifetime movies. perhaps we may come live later for a discussion if we have enough interest.
1 like • 12d
something quite cosy about being snowed in although I am hearing numerous stories about the brutal weather system across the US . If I am awake in the UK later I will join you for a discussion. Lots of Love love 💙💙
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