@Mary Nunaley I don’t have children myself, but I think this is such an interesting question because change is difficult for plenty of adults, never mind children. I imagine one of the most helpful things is giving children a sense of what is going to happen before the change takes place, rather than suddenly dropping them into something unfamiliar. Even if they can’t control the change itself, perhaps giving them a few small choices can help them feel more secure. I also think children probably notice far more of our behaviour than we realise. If the adults around them treat every unexpected change like a disaster, they may naturally learn to fear it. If they see adults saying, “Well, this wasn’t the plan, but let’s see what we can do,” that could teach flexibility in a very natural way. Games could be brilliant for this too — changing the rules halfway through a game, storytelling where the child has to deal with an unexpected twist, role-playing different scenarios, or even giving them a silly “Plan B challenge” where something deliberately doesn’t go according to plan. Perhaps the real skill isn’t teaching children to love change, but helping them learn, “I might not like this, but I can handle it.”