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The Men's Wellness Club

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Welcome to The Men's Wellness Club! Introduce Yourself...
I’m a YouTuber and content creator with one simple goal — to build a healthy, judgment-free space for like-minded people who want to build confidence, improve their lives, and make genuine connections. I started this community because, growing up, no one ever taught us how to make new friends or handle social situations. We were just thrown into them... That’s like performing on stage before you’ve ever learned how to play an instrument. From a young age, I dreamed of being a public figure and inspiring others so... Over eight years ago, while still in school, I started my first YouTube channel. I posted videos showing my face online and instantly became a joke. People laughed, occasionally made fun of me and shared my videos in class for everyone to see... But I didn’t stop. Week after week, I kept posting — no matter what people said, no matter how many laughed. Eventually, my channel grew to 10,000 subscribers. And suddenly, those same people stopped laughing.. Ironic right? Haha! By 19, though, I went through a tough breakup that left my mental and physical health — and my confidence — at an all-time low... All that progress felt like it had disappeared overnight. I stopped creating. I doubted myself. I even started believing that posting videos was “cringe.” So, I stepped away and got a job in social media as a Multimedia Journalist. I interviewed people in real life, presented for huge UK brands, and created videos for the country’s biggest news publisher, Reach PLC. I loved that job. But behind all that external confidence… I was still quite lonely. I had no real support. No one to look up to. No one keeping me accountable. When I searched for advice online, all I found was toxic, ego-driven content — and that’s not who I wanted to be. I wanted to become a good man — someone with a pure heart, who trains hard, inspires others, and makes people’s lives better. and I tried everything to fill that void... Going out drinking every weekend. “Going ghost.”
Welcome to The Men's Wellness Club! Introduce Yourself...
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Hey Tom, I joined this because as a 35 year old your videos have been helpful to me. I’m currently not working, and live with a long term chronic condition that has meant I’ve not really been social, and gave in to being anti-social more often. I’ve decided to change my life by building myself into a better person, learning skills, trying to develop a career, improve my social skills, and trying to be a good man. It’s not easy because your upbringing, and past is your Operating System. It affects how you see, interpret, and react. Changing that takes time, effort, energy, and compassion. Just to say you’re helping inspire that, we need more positive male figures, and spaces. I’m a geek who loves IT, and building computers.
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Paddy Folan
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@paddy-folan-1433
Londoner, Geek

Active 12h ago
Joined Nov 18, 2025