Something I had thought I worked through. Maybe something that requires continued working through in situations where new wounds are created regularly, honestly something I never considered before. Listening to Dr. Rick Marks and Toms CSP video was so powerful---wrong doing creates an opportunity for an exchange--but are you eligible? Interesting concept. Somehow found that to be freeing. I found going over what forgiveness is NOT was super powerful. Resistance to forgiveness--you still want something from the offender....that was mind blowing. (requires some thought in quiet time). So profound was the expectations. Apple tree vs orange tree example. Lends itself to a lot of perspective. Someone may never be who you need or want them to be. Let it Go and Deal with Who they are. The offender may never give you what you want--but you have a choice. Are you willing to give up the thing you want from the offender so you can have freedom found in forgiveness--or will you choose to hold on? At very least, you will know what you are holding on to. SO Grateful to be apart of CSP!!