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The Quiet Comeback

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3 contributions to The Quiet Comeback
Life has a habit of….
Well after thinking 2025 was a rollercoaster of losing 2 close relatives and being made redundent, 2026 has said “hold my beer”! So while I continue to try get a money stream in, job hunting seems to be a case of constant rejection or near misses, and while there’s lots of good comment about my own consultancy nothing solid is on the horizon, while in the background the small amount of savings needed to top up what little benefits we get up is dwindling away I now have the news that at 51 I’m going to be a Dad again! Now one thing is for sure, despite all of this I can’t help but keep smiling and being that ‘fun guy’ while it appears the world is burning around me and my head is a scrambled mess trying to process all of this
Life has a habit of….
0 likes • Apr 14
@Ric Marriott thank you. The mind is starting to think about a change, but coming from a well paying industry to switch probably means a significant drop in salary while I learn. That said, I’m still ploughing on with my own thing along with applying and networking to see if that helps. Sadly with the growth in unemployment and the use of AI to pre-vet applications it appears having 25 yrs experience makes you stand out as being older (& therefore more expensive) in an industry where youth is cheaper and more desirable. But I’m trying to keep smiling through it all, as I won’t find a new role in the bottom of a pint glass!
1 like • May 13
@Bob Ellender thanks Bob, it certainly wasn’t what I had envisioned happening but it’s great news now I’ve become accustomed to it. Retraining is something I’ve thought about but finding something that pays well and I’m passionate about is a challenge. I‘m currently in the process of developing my own consulting business, it’s slow going but I’m getting positive feedback and my contacts in the industry are proving supportive. I’ve even written an article about ‘Payment Sovereignty’ based on what solution is available if Trump switched off UKs access to Visa/Mastercard/PayPal etc. it doesn’t pay, but it raises my own profile and I’ve been asked to write 4 more articles. I missed out on a job recently, ironically to someone who I introduced to the same recruiter. Don’t get me wrong I’m over the moon for the person and I do believe in Karma, I just hope some good comes my way soon though lol
The Shift
Lost my uncle and a close friend in the last two weeks. Not gonna dress it up… it’s been heavy. And I know exactly what the old version of me would’ve done —straight back on the booze. No question. That would’ve been the answer.Numb it. Block it out. Pretend I’m alright. But this time… I haven’t touched it.And I’m not going to. Not because I’m strong or switched on or anything like that…just because I’ve been down that road enough times to know where it ends. And it’s not somewhere I’m willing to go back to. That, for me, is a win. Not a loud one. No big celebration.But it matters. Made me think though… What do you run to when things get hard? Booze?Food?Scrolling?Shutting yourself off? We all have something. But the real shift happens when you start catching it…and choosing something different. Even if no one else sees it. That’s the stuff that actually changes you.
2 likes • Mar 31
I tend to shut down and close myself off. Although I’m the guy that is all smiles that hide my own battles however bad they are. Probably not a good thing but I deal with things in my own way so as not to create stress in others lives
0 likes • Apr 1
@David Sanham it comes from always being a Big brother and looking after everyone else before me. It’s a habit that’s ingrained in my psyche from a very young age, I’ve been put on this earth to look after others before myself
Sonnex Payments Consultants
Hi, I’m Nick, a Payments Consultant, just starting out on my own following redundancy. I’ve helped big and small business navigate the complex world of accepting payments be it in person or online in a career spanning 25 yrs. I don’t sell card terminals, but learn about your business and help navigate the fog that this part of doing business brings to give a recommendation. I’ve helped companies expand all around the world (where often card is not king) as well as working with companies here in the UK bringing a Swiss Army Knife of experience in this world to cut the noise! Many people over-complicate the process and with me I’ll aim to show you a simple way to solve the stress that taking payment can bring. Sometimes the best solution is the simplest one. Let’s have a chat and see if I can help you?
1 like • Mar 22
@David Sanham to be fair it can be anyone that wants to take non-cash payments for their services. So could be someone selling merchandise through a website or who has a store(s) on the high street. The past 11 years I’ve been helping companies expand internationally but that’s not to say I can’t help companies selling to UK consumers. While I’m not a Fraud Expert, I’ve the knowledge to help guide companies on some simple measures that can protect them.
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