BEFORE WE BUILD ANYTHING, WE SUBMIT IT. Hey Kingdom University family. Today is the day we start getting practical. Charts. Plans. Routines. Systems. All of it is coming. But before we open one notebook or print one chart I need us to do something first. Submit it to the Lord. Because here is what I have learned the hard way: You can have the best system in the world and it will fall apart without God in it. You can have the prettiest routine chart on your fridge and still be a chaotic mess by Tuesday. You can know exactly what to do and still not do it — because the real work is not organizational. It is spiritual. So today I want you to go through this Bible study before we do anything else.(DIFFERENT FROM YOUVERSION) I put it together specifically for this reset week. It is going to walk you through what God actually says about order, authority, and new beginnings. You are going to get the definitions. You are going to read the scriptures in full. You are going to sit with reflection questions that are going to shift something in you before we ever touch a chart. It will not take all day. But it will change the foundation you are building on. I know we are also in the YouVersion Bible plan together and that is not going anywhere. This is an addition. A deeper anchor. Do both if you can. But if you only do one today, do this. Here is what I need you to do: Open the Bible study I attached. Get your Bible. Get a pen. Find a quiet space. And do the work. When you are finished take a picture of your notes, your reflection answers, your open Bible, whatever it looks like and drop it in the comments below. Because I have a gift for everyone who finishes. Not a freebie thrown together. A real gift. For a parent who took time out of their day to sit with God before they tried to fix their house. That parent deserves something. So go do the work. Come back and show me. I will be watching the comments. 👀🔥 GIFT OFFER ENDS FRIDAY JULY 10TH Until next time — stay positive. 🧡

Proverbs 24:3-4 "By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches." Three things build a house: wisdom, understanding, knowledge. Not force. Not yelling. Not trying harder. Wisdom: knowing the right thing to do. Understanding: knowing WHY it is the right thing to do. Knowledge: the application. Doing it. A home reset is not about trying harder. It is about getting wisdom, gaining understanding, and then applying it consistently. That is the formula. And it has been in scripture the whole time. In that area, do you have wisdom (you know what to do)? Understanding (you know why)? Or knowledge (you are applying it)? Which piece is missing?

We Reset OURSELVES First Before we touch the kids, we touch ourselves. You cannot build a system in your home from a broken, depleted, dysregulated place. A lot of parents come into a reset week fired up ready to make charts, post schedules on the fridge, and announce new rules at dinner. And by Wednesday everything has fallen apart. Not because the system was bad. Because the person trying to run the system never reset first. So today before we talk about your children we talk about YOU. Reset your mind. What have you been telling yourself about your home? About your children? About yourself as a parent? "My kids are out of control." "Nothing I do works." "I've tried everything." "I'm failing." Those thoughts are running in the background like apps draining your battery. And they are affecting every decision you make before you even open your mouth. Today, replace them. Write down three things that are actually working in your home. Three. No matter how small. Find them and write them down. We are recalibrating your starting point. Reset your body. You cannot parent well chronically exhausted. This week pick one thing. Sleep 30 minutes earlier. Drink water before coffee. Take 10 minutes alone before the house wakes up. Just one thing. For your body. This week. Reset your spirit. Before the house gets loud today...get quiet first. Five minutes. Just you and God. Not a long devotional. Not a whole prayer list. Just God I need you today. Show me what to do. Give me patience where I have none. Lead me. That is enough. Reset your standard. Decide TODAY what you will and will not accept in your home this week. Write it down. Put it somewhere you can see it. Not for your children yet. For YOU. So that when the moment comes you are not making decisions from emotion you are making them from a decision you already made in the calm. YOU first. Then the house. Until next time.... stay positive. 🧡

I need everybody locked in this week. Because we are not doing regular content. We are doing a full home reset. The attitude. The disobedience. The chaos. The patterns that have been running your house instead of you running your house. All of it. This week. Together. I do sell a system, but if you follow me closely this week you can have my complete system for FREE. Every piece of it. Just stay with me. Here is everything happening this week and where to find it — 📖 BIBLE PLAN — We are on Day 3 We are walking through They're Not Bad Kids: You Just Need a System together as a community this week. If you haven't joined yet it is not too late. Jump in and catch up. 🔗 https://bible.com/reading-plans/72620/together/81083635/invitation?token=AVVzNZlPCDsk_e3PVuP5rg&source=share 🎬 WEDNESDAY 6PM — Bible Study for Kids: Episode 2 drops Adam and Eve is coming. If you missed Episode 1 on Creation head over to our YouTube channel and watch it first so your kids are ready. 🔗https://www.youtube.com/c/KashllyKingdomKidz This is for your children. Share it with them. Watch it together. Make it a family moment. 📱 INSTAGRAM this week I will be dropping videos walking you through the home reset step by step. Every video connects to what we are doing here in the community. Watch. Screenshot. Share. 🔗https://www.instagram.com/_kingdomkids__/?hl=en 🙏🏽 FACEBOOK this week Every morning at 7AM — I am praying for the KIDS. Every evening at 7PM — I am praying for the PARENTS. 🔗https://www.facebook.com/share/1HGmXnH3Er/?mibextid=wwXIfr Show up. Bring your requests. Come get covered. 💻 HERE ON SKOOL this week 🎒 MARK YOUR CALENDAR — August 1st I am launching a Back to School Prayer Session on YouTube specifically for kids.

Father, This is one of the hardest prayers I've ever had to pray. Because I can't fix this. And I am their parent. Fixing things is what I do. But this one is outside my hands and I don't know how to sit in that without falling apart. They are hurting. And I would take every ounce of it if I could. But You knew this was coming. You allowed it. And I have to trust even when it makes no sense that You are working in what I can only see as pain. Give me the wisdom to know when to speak and when to sit with them in silence. When to point them to You and when to just hold them. When to intercede and when to let them find their own way to Your feet. Don't let this break them. Let it build something in them that couldn't be built any other way. And while You're working in them do something in me too. Because watching my child hurt is revealing things in me that I still need You to heal. I trust You with them. Even tonight. In Jesus' name. Amen.