Well before a relationship I think I need the experience of simply dating someone, more or less casually, without losing my mind. Im taking some baby steps towards allowing myself to be available out in the world to make that experience happen. So I need to keep moving in that direction

@Dylan Sean Thank you sooo much! I really appreciate and value that kind of encouragement and support. I do still feel unsettled abt posting that selfie, but I now have the skillful means to just let it arise and pass and not be reactive. Im content to let this phase of my life unfold by doing the next indicated step. Im so glad you joined the group and I got the chance to meet you. Your contributions have been valuable. See you soon. Happy Pagan-Christian Holiday!

I will be there. I don’t have anything specific right now Id like to discuss. I would like to continue just getting to know each other, what it’s like for each of us to be gay men in the world right now. See what happens.

@Noor Alexander Definitely would love to expand on that.

@David Lima And these fleeting moments often masquerade as championing sex positivity or dismantling heteronormativity. As Noor said in our call, it’s often just reactive.

Can do both

Damn I missed the notification and wasn’t doing anything except laundry today. I’ll fix that for next time