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It’s one thing to tell our kids they can be anything. It’s another to show them how.

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Traveling for work?
Dads! How long does the trip need to be for you to do the old "here's a gift from my trip"? I just did an overnight in London and didn't bring anything home for the family. Where's the line?!
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@Brennan Lowery I really wish I could do more than just give a thumbs up. Because I would pop a 😆 on the first half of this.
A Hard Part of Being a Good Father
There is a strange balance we walk as fathers. We want to raise honest, thoughtful kids, but we also spend so much energy shielding them from things they are not ready for. It becomes a constant question of when to integrate them into the harder parts of life and when to protect their peace. Last night reminded me of that balance. Nothing dramatic happened. I was simply overstimulated after a long workday. My son wanted a fun evening with his dad. I wanted that too… but my nerves were shot. I was tapped out. Instead of snapping, I tried being honest with him in the simplest way I could. I told him, Daddy might yell right now. I just need a second. He definitely didn’t understand the full picture, but he understood the signal. He gave me that moment. And I realised that some truths can be shared earlier than I thought. Not the heavy stuff…not the marriage worries or money stress or the avalanche of adult concerns. But a small truth he could hold. Our kids are smarter than we give them credit for. They want to be part of our team if we treat them like they are already on it. And they need so much from us. Sometimes more than we feel we have to give. That part is hard. That part stretches us. But last night reminded me that honesty, even in small doses, can be a gift for them and for us. It keeps the connection intact. It keeps us human. It keeps them included in a way they can actually handle. That might be the hardest part of being a good father… knowing when to protect and when to let them in. No questions today Boys. I just wanted to share. I made this group for us to learn from each other and get things off my chest. Thanks for joining me.
Dads...I've got a question about the Holidays...
Is it magical for you or stressful? I was going to write a big thing on the topic but I wanted to know your thoughts first.
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My biggest thing is that I don't pit them against each other. I go out of my way not to make it seem like Hanukkah's trying to be better than Christmas. It's simply another part of me to share with my boy in a way that feels like I'm sharing love. I've never been much for the holidays myself but my kid LOVES this season and I'm all for maintaining that type of enthusiasm. I mean anything that's a net positive to the world and his development is something I'm a fan of. I don't need to understand something he loves to support it and encourage him to keep exploring it. My father was that way about performing, so the least I could do it give that to my son around Christmas, right?
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@Brennan Lowery I hear ya brother. How do you kids like it? I know it's hard, especially because we take all of these things on the chin as fathers to make sure our kids get to just be kids and enjoy the seasons as they come.
Slight change to the Community Tab
Morning Dads! I've update the tabs to reflect the Framework Pillars. Posts have been moved accordingly. Have a look around, comment on one you've missed or share something new to the community. Have a great Monday!
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I just did a dogs$%t lazy a$$ f$^&ing workout and...
It was 100% better than the nothing I'd been doing before. I haven't moved this body through a proper workout in too damn long. How am I meant to talk about the framework of Train Daily if I'm not training ever?! I realize that Training Daily isn't about the quality but the consistency. The discipline of it. If I went too hard today to prove a point I'd have shot myself in the foot for tomorrow. So I did what could have been a warm up for Pre-Pandemic Matt. But I did it. What about you all? Anyone do any moving today? A Walk, maybe? 30 Reps of lifting your kid in the air as they yell "Again!" Anything?
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@Brennan Lowery maybe not today haha. Take care of yourself brother. You’re right though, it’s finding any time. Being on your feet for work has its perks but there’s something about a good workout that helps the mind too. If it only it was as easy to get shredded as it’s been for that bug to do some shredding.
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@Jonny Ritchie Exactly, Trying to do them at home first before I start paying for a gym again. My internal fear is that if I pay for a gym without going then it will essentially be a monthly fat tax haha
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