If you’ve ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same place… Same fight with your partner. Same cycle of procrastination. Same moment where things start going well… and then you sabotage it. It’s not because you’re broken. It’s not because you’re weak. It’s because you’re stuck in a loop. And every loop comes from an old belief, usually one you never even chose. Something planted in you years ago that still runs the show today. Here’s the kicker: Until you see the belief, until you feel where it came from, you’ll keep living the same pattern. But the second you do, it changes everything. You get your choice back. You get your power back. And that’s when life finally starts moving forward. I haven’t launched this yet, but next week I’m releasing Break the Loop, a workshop I’ve built to help you see your own pattern and cut it at the root. It’ll be free for everyone already in here. And I’ve got space for 10 more men to join before I turn this community into a paid one. So here’s the favour: Who do you know that should be in here with us? A brother, a mate, someone you know is stuck and ready for more. Invite them in now while it’s still free, let’s get them access before the doors close. This work isn’t just another “self-help thing.” It’s about breaking the cycles that have quietly run your life for years. And it’s time to end them.

Every man has a loop that runs him. You feel the trigger → you run the same story → you fall into the same behaviour. It’s predictable. It’s unconscious. And it’s costing you your power. Here’s how to break it in under 60 seconds: 1. Pause – Stop the autopilot. Take one breath. 2. Name – Ask yourself: “What story am I telling myself right now?”(Example: “If I speak up, she’ll leave me.” Or “If I fail, I’m worthless.”) 3. Pattern – Notice the behaviour that follows that story.(People-pleasing. Procrastination. Exploding. Retreating.) 4. Choice – Say it out loud: “That’s the old loop. Today I choose ___.”(Set the boundary. Take the action. Speak the truth.) That’s it. It’s simple. But it’s the start of reclaiming your leadership from the unconscious loops that have run you for years. 👉 Drop your loop in the comments. Naming it is the first step in breaking it.

Hey legends, I have notied that there isn't much engagement in this group, and that is something I want to create more of, though I am curious, am I not delivering on the value you guys need/want? Is it a time thing? Are you just not interested? Ideally I am building this into a real community, where we can come together, share our knowledge and expertise, celebrate each others wins and help each other grow into the men we know we can all be. Let me know what it is you want to see more of, or any kind of suggestions or critiques or feedback at all is more than welcome. Please comment below with anything you can think of.

Hey lads quick one for you. I’m curious… what do you actually want more of in here? What topics hit hardest? What do you wish we’d dive deeper into? Is it more content around relationships? Leadership? Discipline? Daily structure? Purpose? or something else entirely? Or is there something you’re struggling with right now that you’d love to see broken down? This space is for you. I can throw content out all day but I want it to actually land and serve. So let me know, what would be most valuable to hear, see or talk about more? Drop it below. Straight up.

We all have a default loop. The thing we do when life feels overwhelming or uncertain. The one that gives temporary relief… but long-term pain. I’m curious, what’s yours? No shame here. Just awareness. Drop your vote and if you feel like it, share a bit more in the comments.