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Before we dig into this weekโs powerful Mental Wellness Monday lesson from Dr. Pam, two important reminders: 1. ๐ฟ Dr. Pamโs Skool community, Shrink Rap, is still FREE โ for now. This is where these teachings go deeper through discussion, reflection, support, and real-life application. If Mental Wellness Mondays speak to you, this group was created for you. ๐ Join Dr. Pamโs FREE group here while you still can: https://www.skool.com/shrinkrap/about(Those who join now will be grandfathered in when it becomes paid.) 2.๐
Next LIVE โAsk A Shrinkโ Event๐ January 28โฐ 6:00 PM EST There is no pre0registration for this event, just show up at the time of the meeting and click this link (https://www.skool.com/live/5JWc8rlMHXn) *More details coming soon Nowโฆ hereโs this weekโs lesson from Dr. @Pam Hernandez kaufman Itโs the first Mental Wellness Monday of the year and letโs Cast a Vision!Forget about New Yearโs Resolutions because research says most of them are never kept. In fact, they are often written down on January 1 or close to and set aside or misplaced by February. What about thinking differently about resolutionsโฆwhat if you call it a goal and define it as a โdream with a deadlineโ? As casting your vision for your life in 2026? Sound better? Think ACTION GOAL! Phrase it like this:โMy goal is to _____ by x date. Obstacles that might get in the way of me reaching my goal are _______. I can take these action steps to help get past these obstacles: _______________.โ Start by thinking S-M-A-R-T. Goals that are Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-Sensitive. Then categorize by work, finance, family, personal, health, educationโฆ whatever is important to you! Here are 7 hopefully helpful hacks to get you to the โgoal lineโ! 1. Visualize yourself doing and being what it is you want. 2. Focus on the behavioral changes needed to make that happen. 3. Train your brain to execute your vision. Remember to use positive self-talk because negative self-talk sabotages success. Positive reframes need repetition. Record or write down personal affirmations and repeat them often. As a person thinks, so is he/she. 4. Be realistic. Know yourselfโWhere are you in the stages of change? Pre-contemplation, contemplation, preparation, action? Maybe youโre not ready for that particular goal quite yet. 5. Pictures help us remember 65% more effectively. Left brain is logical, right brain is creative/imaginative. Integrating the two is the most effective. The brain releases serotonin and oxytocin when we dream and draw. To remain motivated, look at your visual regularly. What about a vision board? Make a visual representation of goals and dreams with pictures, images, words. Think of words and phrases that have meaning to you and that empower, motivate, encourage, stimulate. 6. Watch for obstaclesโpractice self-compassion when set-backs come. Avoid discouragement and resignation when you meet an obstacle. Recognize progress and keep moving forward. Andโฆgo as far as you can see and when there, youโll be able to see farther. Martin Luther King Jr. said, โThe ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge.โ 7. Accountability is keyโit might be helpful to have an accountability partner.