I tried it and was never matched, and didn’t receive a full refund because their policy didn’t allow it, which felt unfair. Gave them free money for nothing essentially.

I kid you not, a man I met at a singles mixer last Fall asked me point blank if I was open to being a “sister wife.” Even after so many years of meeting various men, I still clearly need better discernment. I sincerely ask Allah that 2026 is the year that I meet normal, practicing, decent men. Reflecting on all of my past lessons, I am ready to commit to accountability. The biggest boundary I need to work on is putting boundaries on my time. Establishing clear limits over my time. Allah SWT controls time, we don’t, and I must admit I did not value time that much in my past. I am beginning to understand that when we value our time, Allah values us, because Allah oversees time. I’m improving first and foremost by seeing my role in all of my past experiences. When you know better you do better. I am certain when I show up as the type of Muslimah who values her time and her autonomy, it will get easier to meet aligned potentials.

Assalamu alaikum Sisters, my name is Mariam and I come from the US of A. :) I would really like to learn a structured process for qualifying potentials so I can find men worth investing the time to get to know. The video on assessing if a potential has a growth mindset really engaged me. A funny fact about me is I enjoy rapping and singing in different languages. 😄