Kingdom parents, let’s keep this conversation going. We’ve been talking about consistency, tiredness, boundaries, and what makes us fold. Now let’s talk about something that hits home A lot of us are not disciplining from a standard. We’re disciplining from a mood. When we feel rested, we explain calmly. When we feel overwhelmed, we yell. When we feel guilty, we let it slide. When we feel embarrassed, we overreact. When we feel tired, we don’t address it at all. And then our children don’t know what to expect from us. Honestly....that’s confusing. The same behavior gets ignored on Monday, yelled at on Wednesday, and punished heavy on Friday because we finally snapped. That’s inconsistency and not fair Our children need to know the boundary does not change just because our mood changed. Ask Yourself............................. Am I correcting this because it violates the standard, or because I’m irritated right now? That question will save you from a lot of unnecessary yelling. Discipline should not be driven by embarrassment, exhaustion, anger, or guilt. It should be driven by love, wisdom, correction, and leadership. Today, before you correct, pause and pray “Lord, help me respond from wisdom, not my mood.” Then correct the behavior without dumping your emotions on your child. Because we’re not just trying to raise obedient children. We’re trying to become steady parents. Question for today: Which mood affects your discipline the most? A. Anger B. Tiredness C. Guilt D. Embarrassment E. Overwhelm F. Fear

So my daughter questions a lot why she can’t do the things other kids get to do like watch certain shows, listen to certain music, and dress the way other girls get to dress. Anyone dealing with this? If so how do you handle it and what do you pray regarding their identity?

I pray that this blesses you♥️ Waiting seasons are not punishment; they are preparation. "The LORD is good to those who wait for Him, To the soul who seeks Him." - Lamentations 3:25 Waiting on God feels like standing in a fire. It is uncomfortable, stretching, and often confusing. But God uses the fire to purify, strengthen, and prepare you for what is coming. There was a season when I was waiting for God's direction and timing for my calling. I felt ready to lead, prepared to step into a new level. Instead, God said Wait. It was in that waiting that He shaped me the most. The fire refined my character, sharpened my dependence, and strengthened my humility. Today, as a lead pastor, I see the purpose of that season. It was not punishment. It was preparation. GOD IS NOT DELAYING YOU; HE IS DEVELOPING YOU. WHAT FEELS LIKE A PAUSE IS PART OF THE PROCESS. *What is something you are afraid to release, and how might surrendering it help you walk in freedom? *How does trusting God's timing build freedom and faith in your calling? Lord, help me trust that Your timing is perfect. Refine me in the fire and prepare me for what lies ahead. Amen. Paradox of Freedom by Jamaal Bernard

Hey Kingdom Mama, I've been kind of MIA since first joining trying to catch my Rythym while working so much. I pray everyone is doing well and making progress in their live and home❤️ I would like to ask some advice regarding my daughter, she's 4 years old. When I pray or speak in tongues she says she doesn't want to hear that, when I speak the word of God or worship she says "I'm not a child of God, I don't want to know Jesus, I don't want him to show me his love, I don't want to go to Heaven, I don't want to believe in him and she'll actually get upset if I continue and start kind of whining. Etc and I just want to come against that in Jesus name in an effective way and I was just wondering if you'd be willing to give any advice in what I should do to take authority. This has been a consistent thing lately and I know it's the enemy but I'm not sure what to do about it

I’m asking for prayers as I walk through my health journey with stage four breast cancer i’m about to go through surgery in another week