I know this was posted awhile ago - I've been thinking about it a lot, though, and I feel like I have what I want to say. President Nelson's continual focus on the gathering of Israel healed my heart. In my late teens and early 20s, especially when I was single, I really struggled with feeling like a second-class citizen in the Church because I did not serve a mission (neither did my husband, interestingly enough, yet he did not seem to have even 10% of the same struggle, even though I think typically the men feel more guilted about it than the women...). Part of this is comparing to my twin sister, who had a basically perfect mission that she's still obsessed with, but it was more than that. I really felt like everyone would look at my life and that of an RM and say that I did not sacrifice enough/as much. But President Nelson repeatedly emphasized that anything we do on both sides of the veil to bring people to Christ "counts" as gathering Israel. As I expanded my definition and recognized the good I was doing or could be doing, I realized that the comparison/judgment of myself was actually getting in the way. I'm definitely still working on it, but now when people make comments about missions, instead of feeling personally wounded, I recognize the value in their comment and the truth in myself: I am helping God in His work in MY way. Thank you, President Nelson!