@Tyler Buckingham that's the biggest reason for my radio silence over the past few months. It's hard to know what to say when you're holding onto life, your sanity, and your marriage by the tips of your nonexistent fingernails. Not to mention that's where all my energy was going. But yeah, I think we're on the other side of things (I hope). And I'm glad we're seeing someone together, instead of me just seeing my own therapist and then trying to counsel us through whatever was going on. That wasn't fair to me, him, or the relationship.