Harsh truth about parasocial fans: they don’t want access—they want ownership.
@Jeff Schwerdt @Dave Calafiore @Drew Griffin Allow me to share my unforgettable LoudAF.ai experience. I did this for LinkedIn.This is from my experience. I used to work for a music distributor company, named Bassin Distributors. From there, I went to concert photography, which led me to promoting an artist and a model. So yes, I saw this firsthand. (I used another tool to add more to the meat of the subject, since I hit a limit with the character size on YouTube. Additionally, this tool created the visuals.) (Let's return to LoudAF.ai.) Harsh truth about parasocial fans: they don’t want access—they want ownership. Here’s how creators and brands set boundaries before the hive sets them for you. When discussing creator safety, we often focus on visible boundaries, such as community guidelines and comment moderation. But there's an invisible foundation that must come first. Without it, the visible rules are built on sand. Start with the legal and financial structure. Before your first post, consider a formal business entity (like an LLC) to separate your personal assets from your online activity. It's not glamorous, but it's essential. You also need clear, lawyer-reviewed Terms of Service for any platform you control. These are your first lines of defense. Every collaboration should have a simple agreement defining IP ownership and expectations. This isn't about distrust, it's about clarity. Yet, the strongest legal shield is useless without the right psychological framework. We manage external risks but often neglect internal resilience. Creators need mental models to spot boundary erosion. Do you feel guilty not sharing a personal detail? Obligated to answer DMs after hours? These are warning signs. Conduct regular self-audits. Ask: "Am I sharing out of choice or obligation?" This maintains the professional distance needed for sustainability. This leads to a tiered response system. Treating every boundary crossed the same leads to burnout. We need nuance.