🌿 The Way I Hold This Space
💖 This tab exists so you understand the values and lived devotion behind how this space is held — and why gentleness is not negotiable here. I lead this space the way I do because I know what it’s like to live in survival mode — and I know what it takes to come home from it. For many years, safety came second to responsibility. My nervous system learned to stay alert, to carry what wasn’t mine, to keep going even when my body was asking for rest. When my mother passed, something shifted. A weight I didn’t realize I was still holding softened. I could finally breathe — and begin returning to myself. This space was born from that return. I don’t lead with urgency here. I don’t lead with pressure, performance, or “push through” energy. I lead with presence, rhythm, and respect for the body’s timing. Because I’ve learned this truth firsthand: Healing doesn’t happen faster when we force it. Safety doesn’t grow through proving. And real transformation only sticks when the nervous system feels met. So the way I hold this space is intentional. ✨ I move slowly on purpose. ✨ I value honesty over productivity. ✨ I make room for pauses, questions, and quiet integration. ✨ I trust that what’s meant to surface will — without being dragged into the light. You won’t be rushed here. You won’t be required to share more than feels true. You won’t be asked to perform healing, gratitude, or growth. Instead, you’ll be invited to listen. To notice. To return to yourself again and again — in small, sustainable ways. I don’t see myself as above you. I see myself as with you. I lead from lived experience, deep listening, and devotion to safety — not because I have all the answers, but because I know how to hold space while the answers emerge. If you’re here, it’s because something in you is ready for gentler ground. And it’s an honor to hold that with you. Welcome. You're allowed to arrive slowly here.