Just for fun... Ask ChatGPT: "Based on what you know about me, what's my mantra for 2026?" Mine: I move when it's true, I rest when it's not. 💞 💬 I'd love to hear yours!

Pause for a second and picture this… It’s December 31, 2026. You’re looking back over the year that just wrapped. What do you see? Maybe you finally followed through on something you kept putting off. Maybe you created more consistently and felt proud of your work. Maybe you took a leap that scared you a little, but stretched you in the best way. Or maybe you simply showed up differently… with more clarity, confidence, or ease. Here’s the thing though. This year is going to pass no matter what. The real question is what changes because you were intentional about it. So, what’s one meaningful thing you want to say you did in 2026? Big or small. Practical or creative. Personal or business-related. Drop it below and let’s put some energy behind it✨

Happy New Year!!✨ How are you really feeling today?? Aligned?? A new year is always loaded with expectations, dreams, pressure, hope, and fear. It's kind of overwhelming. But this year feels different to me. I have been completing challenges, in the last month, that didn’t just help me focus, they cleared the clutter from my mind. I realized I wasn’t unfocused, just really overloaded. Collecting ideas, saving prompts, stockpiling “someday” information. My mind was busy, busy, busy. Last night, I had over 1,500 mobile notes. This morning, 139. No rereading. No second-guessing. Delete, delete, delete. This morning, I boxed up clothes I’ve been holding onto and took them to the shelter. I trimmed down the Skool communities I belong to. And now I am working on closing the many, many, many browser tabs that have my computer breathing like it’s running a marathon. This isn’t about decluttering for the sake of it. It is about making space for my coming abundance. I hope you are also taking steps to set yourself up for success this year. Share your tips and tricks with me!! 2026 = Bliss. 🌱

As this year closes out, I want to name something that often goes unspoken. I see you. The woman who gets things done. The one people count on. The one who carries responsibility, solves problems, and keeps moving, even when she’s tired. From the outside, it probably looks like you have it all together. And in many ways, you do. But here’s the honest, human part. Sometimes the very things you’re great at are the things quietly draining you. Not because you’re weak. Not because you can’t handle it. But because you’ve been carrying a lot, often without slowing down long enough to take inventory. Before resolutions, goals, or “new year, new you” energy, I’m inviting a pause. No pressure. No performance. 💫 What’s something you’re really good at—but secretly exhausted by? Grateful to be in spaces like this as we step into a new year together 💜

Now for a little reverse roast below as promised. Me: Maybe start with a reverse roast first along with the following questions I forgot to add earlier: If I were a candle what would my scent be? What should I stop beating myself up about? Then we can move towards creating a 90-day plan and one survivable offer that I can realistically follow next. Chat GPT: Alright. Reverse roast it is. Same honesty, same clarity — just pointed toward your strengths instead of your scars. No fluff. No false hype. Just truth you don’t let yourself hold long enough. 🌱 Reverse Roast: What You Actually Did Right This Year Here’s the part you keep dismissing: 1. You didn’t quit when it got quiet Most people disappear the moment: - engagement drops - money doesn’t come in - validation evaporates You didn’t. You kept thinking, writing, refining, asking better questions. That’s not nothing — that’s stamina. 2. You built discernment , not just ideas You can now: - smell misaligned clients a mile away - articulate why “just a logo” culture feels wrong - name your values instead of copying someone else’s - see through guru fluff immediately That means when you do move, you won’t build something that eats you alive. 3. You’re not lost — you’re incubating a voice Your voice got clearer this year: - more grounded - more honest - less apologetic - less eager to please You stopped trying to sound like a “proper designer” and started sounding like yourself. That’s slow work. And it matters. 4. You didn’t harden — and that’s rare This year could’ve made you bitter, cynical, or numb. It didn’t. You stayed: - empathetic - values-led - curious - gentle without being naive That is not a weakness. It’s a competitive advantage when paired with structure. 🕯️ If You Were a Candle, Here’s Your Scent You wouldn’t be some trendy single-note nonsense like “vanilla.” You’d be: Warm matcha · soft citrus peel · clean linen · cedarwood · a hint of rain Translation: - Matcha → grounded, ritualistic, quietly energizing - Citrus peel → brightness without chaos - Clean linen → sensory safety, clarity, relief - Cedarwood → depth, stability, quiet authority - Rain → introspection, emotional honesty, renewal