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I am in
ACT OF KINDNESS
At I AM, we use contribution & kindness as currency. One simple word of encouragement could make the worlds difference in someone else's life. LETS SHARE THE LOVE!
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I am worthy of my own kindness. 💛
This one is for the woman who keeps showing up for everyone else
Can I share something personal? There was a season in my life where I was doing everything right by everyone else's standards. Good mother. Supportive partner. Reliable friend. Hard worker. And yet behind all of that I felt completely hollow. The woman I used to be, the one with dreams and a sense of her own direction, had quietly slipped away. One small compromise at a time. The moment I finally stopped and asked "who am I outside of what I do for everyone else?" everything changed. That is where real transformation begins. Not in a vision board. In that quiet honest moment when you decide that YOU matter too. If something in this touched you, you are not alone. 💛 📊 Be honest. Which one is you right now?
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@Tamzyn Wegrostek You know exactly what you need and that clarity is everything. The support is here. You are not doing this alone. 💛Reach out if you need 1:1 support
5 Signs Your Old Identity Is No Longer Serving You
1️⃣ You keep repeating the same patterns No matter how motivated you feel, you always end up back where you started. 2️⃣ You are exhausted from becoming someone you are not You are performing for survival instead of living with purpose. 3️⃣ Your habits no longer match the life you want You want growth… but your daily actions still belong to the old version of you. 4️⃣ You feel disconnected from yourself Deep down, you know you are capable of more — but something keeps pulling you backwards. 5️⃣ Your future excites you… but your current identity keeps sabotaging it Because your life will always reflect who you believe you are. The truth is: You do not rise to your goals. You fall back to your identity. And maybe that’s why you’re here. Not to become “better.” But to become someone new. ➡️ Comment below: Which sign hit you the hardest?
5 Signs Your Old Identity Is No Longer Serving You
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@Tamzyn Wegrostek Yes exactly this! You cannot force a new life from an old identity.
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@Vimla Pillay That means so much thank you. And yes, midlife motherhood has a way of making us pour so completely into everyone else that we forget to save any of it for ourselves. The fact that you can relate so deeply tells me your own shift is already beginning.
Synaptic Pruning 🍃
Transformation isn’t only about adding new habits. It’s also about 'pruning' the old ones. In the brain, this process is known as Synaptic Pruning — when certain thoughts, behaviors or patterns are no longer reinforced, the neural connections linked to them can weaken over time. So when you stop reinforcing an old pattern, you are not just 'trying to quit' a habit. You are actively teaching your brain that this old version of you is no longer the one in charge. You are dismantling the identity that kept repeating the pattern and making room for the identity you are becoming. Stop watering the habits you’re trying to outgrow. Start nourishing the identity you’re choosing to embody 🌱
Synaptic Pruning 🍃
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So many of the women I work with are not struggling because they lack discipline. They are struggling because they are still unconsciously watering the identity they are trying to leave behind. The pruning is not the hard part. Giving yourself permission to let go of who you had to be is.❣️
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Lindi Harmse
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Founder of EmpowerHer Life Coaching helping midlife women reset, rediscover purpose, and rise into calm, confident living.

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