We think freedom comes when people stop judging us. When parents approve. When partners finally “get it.” When the instagram claps and follows instead of cringes. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: Most of the time, no one is stopping us. We already stopped ourselves. Not because we’re lazy or afraid. But because somewhere along the way, we quietly decided: “This is who I am.” That story becomes a cage. And we start defending it like it’s our identity. Real freedom doesn’t come from being misunderstood less… It comes from breaking free from the IDEA of who you think you are. ✨Question What belief about yourself feels “true”… but might actually be outdated?

Any exciting plans?

— it broke me. A lot of what I thought was stable fell apart. Identities, plans, certainty, the way I understood myself and my strength. There were moments I genuinely didn’t know who I was or how to keep going the same way. But that breakdown wasn’t random. It forced me to rebuild from a place I had never accessed before. Not from control. Not from pushing. Not from “I’ll figure it out.” I rebuilt from softness. From honesty. From being willing to feel instead of perform. I found a kind of strength that doesn’t need armor. A softness that doesn’t mean weakness. A capacity to hold fear, grief, love, and responsibility at the same time, without collapsing. Soft Power stopped being a concept this year. It became lived. Messy. Real. This space exists because of YOU. Because you were willing to show up raw, confused, open, and still stay in the room. That matters more than anything polished. Thank you for being here. Truly. ❤️ If this community supported you in any way this year, invite a woman who needs this kind of space. Someone who’s tired of pretending and ready to rebuild from truth. I’m grateful for you. And I’m walking into next year clearer, softer, and stronger — with YOU. And this is just the beginning of our Soft Revolution 🌺✨

Ladies, when should we do a Soft Room hangout? Right now it’s scheduled for Jan 1st, but knowing how everyone is usually traveling and sleeping, should we move it to Jan 4th? Please let me know ❤️

Have you noticed how easy it is to be sarcastic, judgmental, or shut down when we feel hurt, embarrassed, or wronged? It’s the first “natural” reaction we get — to find a way to HURT BACK. Sometimes with silence, sometimes with tone, sometimes with a simple look. How many “conversations” happen without a single word being sad. But being harsh and hard is easy.. the hard part is to stay open, to choose love, to choose Light, when it’s the last think we want to do.. THAT’S the real work. That’s the real test. That’s what your Soul came here for. That’s how you change your reality from 3D to 5D. From hurt — to Love. From separation to Unity. I’m wishing you the strength to do THE WORK this week ❤️