I Saw You was born from the understanding that every person has a story, and that what we see on the surface does not always reveal what lies beneath.🤾 My professional journey has taken me through leadership, business and working with people facing difficult circumstances, including trauma. My own experiences of change and loss have further shaped my understanding of the challenges people face in life and relationships.🌠 As a Professional Sexologist, I bring this understanding into my work through I Saw You, supporting individuals and couples navigating relationships, intimacy, grief, trauma and identity.🕺 My Christian faith is at the heart of this journey. The name I Saw You reflects my belief that God sees us, knows our stories and never leaves us unseen.🙏 So, what can you expect when you join us? This is a place to connect, share experiences, explore life's questions and learn from one another. You will also find courses in the Classroom to explore at your own pace. You do not have to complete courses in a particular order or keep posting to unlock them all at once. Take your time and choose what speaks to you.😆 Once a week , we will meet for our Coffee Session. Think of it as a time to pause, connect, show care and share openly. As conversations unfold, you can suggest topics you would like us to explore more deeply. We will then schedule dedicated discussions in the Calendar so we can give those topics the time and attention they deserve.😎 Come as you are, bring your questions, share your thoughts and become part of the conversation. Let's make this a community where we learn from one another, care for one another and discover new ways forward together🍏 . You are seen. You are welcome. You belong here.♥️

If someone asked you, “Tell me about yourself,” what would you say? Not your job. Not your relationship status. Not what you have achieved. You. What words would you use? Would you describe yourself as strong, difficult, caring, insecure, independent, successful, unlucky, confident, shy, broken, capable, or something else? Now ask yourself something a little deeper: Where did that story come from? Who told you these things about yourself? And which parts of your story have you never stopped to question? Maybe there are things you believe about yourself simply because you have believed them for so long. So, if you had to be completely honest: What is the story you tell yourself about you?

you say 𝘆𝗲𝘀. You 𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲. You 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽. You 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲. You 𝗸𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁. You 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗻𝘀. You go along with something — 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻, 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝘆.🤦 And sometimes you don't even think twice about it. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗱𝗼 𝗶𝘁. But here's something worth thinking about: What makes us 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁? Not what 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝘄𝗲 𝗱𝗼. Not what is right or wrong. Just why.🙇 Where do you think that behaviour comes from? And if we are completely honest with ourselves... How do we know when we are doing something because we genuinely want to — and when we are doing it for a reason we haven't yet understood? 𝗜’𝗺 𝗰𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸.🥀

I am not what happened to me. I am not my failures. I am not my losses. I am not the opinions of others.

Who are you when nobody is telling you who to be? Is your identity your job? Your relationship? Your family? Your achievements? Your past? Or the way other people see you? We often build an identity from what we have experienced — but experience and identity are not the same thing. Before we can ask “Where am I going?”, perhaps we need to ask: “𝗪𝗵𝗼 𝗮𝗺 𝗜?” And for those who believe in God, there is an even deeper question: “Who did God create me to be?” You don't have to have the answer today. But discovering your identity may be the beginning of discovering your direction, your purpose — and your restoration. 𝗦𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝘁'𝘀 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸: 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲, 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗷𝗼𝗯, 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗼𝗿 𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀?