The world we live in will do everything to confuse you and make things unclear. To influence you to do things and be in a certain way that do not benefit you. To better manipulate you, to keep you overstimulated and overwhelmed. To keep you stuck. Clarity is extremely powerful. With clarity comes action. With action comes change and evolvement. Everything and everyone have an opinion about everything and you will be overwhelmed if you let it get to you. Be smart, be clear within yourself. Want more for yourself and unlock for yourself what people and society don't want you to unlock. Look for the facts, because they are the only ones you can truly rely on. You don't need a PhD in everything to master your life. You just need to understand the basics. Don't let everything blur these truths in your mind. Control what you let get into your mind, litterally. Prophet Muhammad (sas) warned us about this. Life is very simple. You control only what you can control and the rest is on Allah. Let go of what you don't control, have tawakkul. Make peace with that. Mindset is key. Make what you want and who you want to be as clear as water. Study and learn how to become that and never stop. In marriage like in everything, watch your mindset in everything. Watch the words you use to speak to yourself and others. It matters immensly. You know why? It's not just the world that influences you, you influence your own mind with your own words. This trend on the internet now, is trying to influence you to be mad at men. Don't let this affect you. It's just another strategy of the shaytan to manipulate you and keep you stuck in fear. Good people are there. You just have to see clearly by having the right mindset. What you focus on you will see. What you focus on you will become and will happen to you. This applies to absolutely everything in life. Example: If you train you mind to see yellow flowers, you will see them everywhere. The same way, if you train your mind to listen to people and society blindly, you will only see what they are telling you to see. Be smart and train your mind to have a mindset that benefits you. Have a bulletproof mindset. No matter what happens around you, you are the one in control of your mind. Let people speak, let society speak. Who cares. Let the words and wisdom of Allah get to you.

Assalamu alaikum, beautiful sisters 🌸 Today I want to pause and say something from the heart: I am so grateful for this community. We have never met face to face, yet somehow this space feels close, safe, and warm. 🌿 The spouse search can feel lonely, especially on the days when you're tired, anxious, or unsure. But here, someone always understands. Someone replies with kindness, shares a lesson she learned, or simply makes dua for you. The Prophet ﷺ said that the believers are like one body: when one part hurts, the whole body feels it. I see that here, and I feel truly blessed by it. 🤍 May Allah reward every sister who has shown up, shared, listened, and prayed for someone she has never met. May He ease your hearts, grant you peace in the waiting, and write for each of us what is best. Ameen. 🤲 💬 Your turn: Is there a sister or a moment in this community that has made you feel supported? Share it in the comments, and let's thank each other.

We took a poll on what sisters FEAR THE MOST and the top answer was: .... CHOOSING THE WRONG PERSON. I am really interested in....in what way? What is the worst thing that could be wrong about them? Can't wait to read the comments....😁

Who’s in the Lead? @Layan B Who’s the Runner Up? @Anna Muhammad Congrats….! Keep it up for the big prize to be announced on the last WEDNESDAY of the Month. How We Compete I don’t know anyone who doesn’t like a little friendly competition. Think about it like how the Sahaba raced one another to Jannah. You are racing one another for Ilm (knowledge) and improving yourselves to have a healthy and happy marriage,bithnillah. This is how it works…. - Participate in the community section as much as you can  - Welcome new sisters who come in - Make your own posts - Comment & participate on our weekly inspirational or Friday Focus posts Then… watch your name rise on the leader board. Keep consistent with good nia and action and bam!! You will be in the running to win serious MERCH… Signature T’Shirts, Mugs, Journals, Planners and more!! May the sister with the best hustle and heart win, bithnillah!

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته So I just had a sit-down after months or has it been a year, I can't recall. Alhamudllilah I didn't pass out but I'm a little confused on what to do. Because we couldn't communicate well because he doesn't speak proper English so my walil and the brother just ended up texting . So do I just say I'm not interested or do I give it another chance? 🤔