Hard Preselection vs Soft Preselection
I’d love to have a deep discussion on this. What do you think is better? Soft preselection or hard preselection? - Soft preselection: Women being around you, smiling, touching your arm, laughing in photos — subtle evidence you’re liked and trusted by women. Group pics, behind-the-scenes, candid hugs, girls at your events. Archetypal E.g. Photographer with lots of female friends, Dance instructor, Bartender, Venue host, etc - Hard preselection: More explicit sexual or status signals that scream “he sleeps with lots of women” very sexualized imagery, blatant “I’m a player” messaging, hookups. Archetypal E.g. Adult Male Performer, FBoy Promoter Archetype, BDSM Exhibitionist, etc