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Reflection: The Wisdom of Holding Paradoxes
I once heard it said that wisdom isn't found in resolving the tension between two true things — it's found in being able to hold both, without flinching, without picking a side. Scripture doesn't shy away from this. Solomon warns against being too righteous in your own eyes and too wicked in your indulgence — both extremes miss the point (Ecclesiastes 7:16-18). Paul goes further: he boasts in his weaknesses, because it's there, not in his strength, that Mashiach's [Messiah's] power shows up clearest (2 Corinthians 12:10). The tension isn't a problem to solve. It's the place where God meets us. - To be deeply disturbed by the state of the world, and still genuinely grateful for the gift of life. - To grieve what you've lost, and still be thankful for what remains. - To release what you cannot control, and still take action toward what you can change. - To be powerful, and still deeply tender. To hold firm boundaries, and still carry a giving heart. The immature mind needs certainty — one thing has to be right so the other can be wrong. But real chokmah [wisdom] lives in the paradox. The moment you can hold it without flinching, you have access to something most men spend their whole lives arguing their way around. Here's the harder truth underneath all of it: - Just because God (YHWH [Hashem]) uses me does not mean He's pleased with me, agrees with me, or will use me again. Paul knew this fear well enough to discipline his own body so that, after preaching to others, he wouldn't find himself adokimos [disqualified] (1 Corinthians 9:27). - Usefulness to God and righteousness before God are not the same thing — Scripture is full of men He used and still held accountable. My first purpose in this life is to be known by God (YHWH [Hashem]) — to know Him, and to please Him, above all else. Everything else — platform, influence, fruit — is downstream of that one thing. Supplemental Deeper Dive
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Working on it. Got to stay balanced. I find when applying the beginning principle of Wisdom, "fear God", to each situation my path, thought process, and vision become clearer. Paul understood this deeply after his Damascus road experience. He was born again with a second chance and that came from God. He could have been taken out that day. At that moment all his his self pride and righteousness was put into check, and he was given clemency when he deserved wrath.
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ESV, Tree of Life, NLT, Amplified
Grace
I heard a good one today. "If all of your grace is saved for strangers and not your wife or kids, that isn't kindness, it's image management"
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Truth. I have found managing the home is the greatest challenge with the greatest reward. I don't want to speak for everyone but to your point we teach our kids to have manners and be polite in public and in front of others. When we go back home it is a safe place and our guard goes down. You are illustrating a culture in our homes that grace and kindness start in the home and flow out, this not the "Christian Home" American norm, which is we are one way in public and another at home. Our children see that inconsistency and learn to walk inconsistently which bleeds over to our spiritual walk. Hot and Cold. Wow! This was not the direction I was going when I first started writing. I needed to hear some thing from the Holy Spirit for myself this am. Thanks Ryan for the comment.
Tomorrow could be too late
Proverbs 27:1 NIV [1] Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring. I consistently make excuses as to why I'm not in the word more. My kids, no time, it's too loud, I have trouble reading, etc. Ultimately, those excuses need to die because tomorrow could be too late for me to "start getting in God's word more." There will always be something that distracts you. Don't let yourself be an option. If the devil thinks of you as enough of a threat to take you out personally, then congratulations you are one heck of a warrior for God. In my experience, all it takes is a little nudge and my own flesh takes it from there. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak. Stay in God's word, lean on Him today.
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Excellent!!
New Pod: Teach Me To Father
The morning challenge for all men: Their "mirror routine." The negative morning monologues of regret and rumination can set the pace for the day and become a key battleground in the mind. Here's a 5-minute liturgy to start your day in the right headspace. making the most of the day, stewarding it well. Listen Here - Apple 📍 This 5-Minute Morning Liturgy Could Change Your Life Listen Here - Spotify 📍 This 5-Minute Morning Liturgy Could Change Your Life Watch Here - YouTube📍 This 5-Minute Morning Liturgy Could Change Your Life Practical App: 🔻 Morning Liturgy (Morning Disciplines) Minute 1: Wake Up Without Surrendering to the Phone - Do not let the world disciple you before the Word does. Minute 2: Stand Before God Before Standing Before the Mirror - Say: “Father, I belong to You before I belong to this day.” Minute 3: Refuse Yesterday's Accusation - Say: “Yesterday is not my master. Shame is not my shepherd. Condemnation is not my covering.” Minute 4: Receive Mercy - Say: “Your mercies are new this morning. I receive mercy, correction, cleansing, and strength.” Minute 5: Speak Identity and Choose Faithfulness - Say: “I am a son of God. I am being restored. I will walk today in peace, confidence, strength, holiness, and wholeness.” Highlight clips below or full YouTube version🔻 barry/fs
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My wife and my son put small post-it notes on the bathroom mirror, with verses that declare who God has made them and called them to be!
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Kevin Mahaffey
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Born in SC, Follower of Christ, Husband of 33 years to Christy, father of Matthew and Joshua and father-in-law to Ashley Anna and Kerri. USAF Veteran.

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