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Purposeful Chaos Collective

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Week 2 Challenge: The Power of No 🛑
Here's a truth bomb: Your "yes" is only as powerful as your "no." This week's challenge is about boundaries—not the kind that keep people out, but the kind that protect what God is calling you to build in this season. Here's why this matters: Every time you say yes to something that's not aligned with your current purpose, you're saying no to something that is. You can't pour from an empty cup, and you can't steward your calling if you're scattered across a hundred obligations that aren't yours to carry. YOUR CHALLENGE THIS WEEK: 1. Identify ONE thing you need to say "no" to this week (a commitment, a request, an old obligation, even a mindset) 2. Say the no—graciously, but firmly 3. Notice what space opens up when you do 4. This isn't about being selfish. It's about being obedient to your season. 👉🏽 Share your win! What did you say no to, and how did it feel? (We're celebrating boundaries here!) Faith Connection: Jesus often withdrew to lonely places to pray (Luke 5:16). Even Jesus said no to crowds and demands to protect His purpose and connection with the Father. Your no is holy when it protects your yes to what matters most. You've got this. 💪🏽 P.S. If you're a Level 2 member, access the Resource Library and check out the: "CHRISTIAN BOUNDARIES BLUEPRINT KIT: SACRED YES, HOLY NO"
Week 2 Challenge: The Power of No 🛑
0 likes • Jan 21
Yesterday I said no to an "opportunity" that "felt good" but didn't make any logical sense. My body was getting all of these warm fuzzy feelings during the conversations about the opportunity but when I sat down to think about it, it was like - why would I do this? Why would I give up my old career for this? Why would I accept such low pay to change directions now? And how will I afford this change in direction? I had to be very clear with the person pushing me into this...I am just not going to be taking this opportunity because there is more unknowns than knowns and I am not comfortable being pushed into this.
UPDATE: Her Seat at the Table - 8-Week Biblical Study Cohort
🕊️ HER SEAT AT THE TABLE 🕊️ 8-Week Live Biblical Study Cohort Hey beautiful women 🤍 I wanted to share an update about Her Seat at the Table. This cohort is still very much on my heart, and I’m currently in a season of prayerful refinement around the timing, structure, and delivery of the experience. I want to make sure that when this launches, it’s done with clarity, care, and the depth this journey deserves. Because of that, the previously shared dates and platform are no longer final. I’m making adjustments to how the cohort will be delivered and will be sharing the updated details once everything is aligned and confirmed. What this means for you: - You’ll receive future updates about the cohort by email. - You don’t need to remain in the Skool community to participate when registration opens again. - You’ll be the first to know when the new details are ready. Are you navigating chaos right now and wondering where God is in the middle of it? This cohort is for you. --- WHAT IS "HER SEAT AT THE TABLE"? An 8-week transformative journey through the lives of 7 women from Scripture whose stories reveal profound truth: God doesn't wait for chaos to end to call you. He meets you in it and equips you through it. This study is built on the S.E.E. Framework—a healing journey progression: 🕊️ SEEN – Safety, voice, validation 🕊️ ENCOURAGED – Redemption, hope, God's pursuing love 🕊️ EQUIPPED – Identity, authority, purpose --- YOUR 8-WEEK JOURNEY: WEEKS 1-3: SEEN (Safety, Voice, Validation) - Week 1: Tamar (Genesis) – From Family Betrayal to Jesus' Lineage - Week 2: Rahab – From Prostitute to Woman of Faith - Week 3: Tamar of David – A Voice for the Voiceless WEEKS 4-5: ENCOURAGED (Redemption, Hope, God's Pursuing Love) - Week 4: Woman at the Well – From Shame to Bold Evangelist - Week 5: Gomer – From Unfaithful to Beloved WEEKS 6-7: EQUIPPED (Identity, Authority, Purpose) - Week 6: The Bleeding Woman – From Untouchable to Touched by Jesus - Week 7: Mary Magdalene – From Demon-Possessed to First Resurrection Witness
UPDATE: Her Seat at the Table - 8-Week Biblical Study Cohort
1 like • Jan 18
I love this. How beautiful! With my chaotic schedule at Target I am not sure if I can join yet. Sending so much love and blessings over this cohort.
Week 1 Challenge: Name Your Chaos ✨
Welcome to your first weekly challenge! This week, we're starting simple but powerful: NAME YOUR CHAOS. Here's why this matters: What you can name, you can navigate. When chaos feels overwhelming, it's often because it's this big, undefined mass of "too much." But when you name it—specifically—you take back power. YOUR CHALLENGE THIS WEEK: 1. Grab a piece of paper or open your notes app 2. Finish this sentence: "The chaos I'm navigating right now is..." 3. Be specific. Not "everything is falling apart" but "I'm juggling a demanding job, two kids' schedules, and trying to figure out my next career move" Once you name it, you can start to see it clearly. And what you see clearly, you can move through intentionally. 👉🏽 Drop a comment with your chaos (only if you're comfortable sharing!). No judgment here—just truth and support. Let's do this together. 💪🏽
Week 1 Challenge: Name Your Chaos ✨
1 like • Jan 17
The chaos I'm navigating right now is my schedule at Target, potentially being accepted back to school, the struggle with keeping my house as my savings are draining and serious workplace traumas while I study for my Certified Project Manager certificate and navigate the painful "icicles" that radiate through my body as I navigate going back to a "real" job. I believe its my flight or fight response and not the enemy but its scary.
0 likes • Jan 18
@Tamara Allison It is the fear of failure. And so I am taking my time to realize the fear, will also taking action to surrender into the studying and mentally PUSHING myself into the action. If I dont push myself this will NEVER get done and I will deny myself of the opportunities for work that God is calling me to be doing in this season. I TRULY appreciate your kindness and the offer for a DM. I have no idea what my 2/13 schedule will be, but God willing I will be able to join your call that night.
Ask me anything! I'm here to help 💬
Have a question? Need guidance? Wondering about something specific? This is your space to ask me directly. Whether it's about: 💭 Navigating a specific challenge you're facing 💭 Clarifying something from a weekly challenge or coaching call 💭 Getting advice on setting boundaries, finding purpose, building resilience 💭 Understanding how the community works 💭 Or anything else on your mind Drop your question below and I'll respond as soon as I can. Remember: Your question might be exactly what someone else needs to hear answered too. So don't hold back. Let's talk. I'm here for you. 💛
Ask me anything! I'm here to help 💬
1 like • Jan 17
Tamara, would you be willing to share how and why you became a peer support specialist? My therapist wants me to become one of those after being diagnosed with a serious mental illness and recovering in resilience and inspiration for others. I would love to know more about you are your stories.
0 likes • Jan 18
@Tamara Allison That is so awesome!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR EXPERIENCE. I was never a drug or alcohol addict but I was a food addict and when I surrendered my life to Jesus Christ in 2018, Jesus led me to awareness of my own addictions and into recovery. I am so blessed by Him ever single day in His paths and divine healing over my life!!!
A Chaotic Season
There was a season in my life when everything felt like complete chaos with no explanation. No matter how much I prayed or sought the Lord for answers, nothing was clear anymore. Nothing made sense. The answers just weren’t coming. I was tired in every way possible—physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. It felt like one trial after another with no break in between. Hurt after hurt. Pain after pain. Attack after attack. I remember thinking, “I’m just ready for this version of my life to be over.” Not in a suicidal way, but in a “Lord, I don’t want to live like this anymore” way. My body was tired. My mind was tired. My soul was crying out. Spiritually, I was drained. So much so that my health started fading. My family was in chaos too. Every time I thought I was getting through one trial, another one came right on top of it. No break. No clarity. No answers. Just an extended season of being afflicted on multiple sides at once. I was interceding for others. Showing up for others. Pouring out. And yet I felt unseen, unrefilled, and exhausted. I felt like I “had to” keep going, even when nothing was being poured back into me. I was just… tired. There’s a passage in Lamentations that describes exactly how that season felt: “He has besieged me and surrounded me with bitterness and hardship… I have been deprived of peace; I have forgotten what prosperity is.” (Lamentations 3:5,17) That was my heart. Surrounded. Drained. Wondering where peace even went. And yet, in my most vulnerable moments—when I felt like I was at my very end and ready to say, “I’m tired of trying, tired of praying, tired of being unseen”—God would show up. He would not let me go. He reminded me, again and again, that He still heard my prayers and that He was still working, even when I couldn’t see it. I witnessed miracles for others. I carried grief in many forms. I walked through loss, pain, and spiritual warfare all at once. And even while waiting on my own breakthrough, God kept showing me that He was still present, still faithful, still near.
1 like • Jan 17
Yes. And even though I was financially secure and had a steady schedule I was being mentally and emotionally abused and I went back to the Lord after abandoning Him because of what He did to me by making me very sick and I almost lost everything and did lose people I love. I too was led back to Lamenations and it felt like my exact stories and pains in Lamenations. I couldn't even read it all at once. I am living in the choas now and I dont have it all together but I am desperately trying to. The pressure is real from my friends and family, as well as myself and God but I will do it all - somehow, someway and I am struggling through trusting, surrendering and listening as I push myself harder and harder to get back up.
0 likes • Jan 18
@Tamara Allison YES!!! Thank you. As a new Christian, I have to remember to always seek Christ, pray and meditate on the scriptures and create as much calm and order as possible while trusting and surrendering, yet still moving forward. I appreciate the support and encouragement. Its literally tackling one day at a time.
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