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9 contributions to Budo Taijutsu Unchained
Episode 5 Thoughts
The second of the twelve recurring principles brings us to the three triangles: surface, structural, and mental—and underneath all three sits an older concept that I find incredibly relevant to the way I train: metsubushi. To me, metsubushi is about disrupting what someone is able to perceive and process—physically, structurally, and mentally—before you ever need to rely on strength or even make significant contact. It’s taking away their ability to clearly understand what is happening. And that connects directly back to kyojitsu. If kyojitsu is about controlling what someone believes is true, metsubushi is about disrupting what they can actually perceive. Different concepts, but the same underlying idea: control the information they are receiving, and you influence the response that follows. This principle is especially relevant to me because I’m small. I’m not the biggest person in the room. I’m not the strongest person in the room. In fact, most of the people I train with are twice my size and could physically overpower me if I allowed the encounter to become a contest of strength. So I have to approach it differently. Whether I’m training in the dojo or thinking about an actual threat, I have to understand how to use the nervous system to my advantage. Because regardless of how physically capable or highly trained someone is, there are fundamental human responses that don’t simply disappear because you’ve earned a black belt or spent years lifting weights. The nervous system still responds to disruption. Vision changes. Breathing changes. Balance changes. Attention narrows. The brain has to process new information. And when you can interrupt those things, even for a moment, you can change the entire equation. For me, the three triangles are about disrupting force, structure, and the mind. Vision, breathing, balance. Take away their ability to see clearly. Disrupt their breathing. Take away their base. Get into their structure. Take away their focus, their purpose, and ultimately their willingness or ability to continue the confrontation. And then you have a choice: eliminate the threat or escape.
2 likes • Sep 10
@Hazel Allington you’re most welcome. If my thoughts help one person within their own journey, then it’s worth continuing to share. ☺️
What is the purpose of inflicting pain in self-defense??
Pain. Not injury, necessarily, although injury is one way to cause pain, so it's a part of this. Answer in the comments.
What is the purpose of inflicting pain in self-defense??
2 likes • Aug 28
Eliminate the threat, disrupt the nervous system, distraction, move the body where you want it to go, allow for escape.
1 like • Aug 28
I’ve spent most of my martial arts training in which individuals have approached me with the mindset that pain tolerance was required when training, especially for a female. I was often taught, incorrectly in my opinion due to egos, to accept that being hit hard and receiving physical injuries was often just “a part of training”. I’ve since learned when training with quality instructors and partners that training without injury is not only possible, but the proper way to train and keep your training partners around long term. There is a place within individual training to practice delivering hits or movements that will cause pain when properly implemented, but if you train effectively with your training partners, you should be able to control your movements in such a way to avoid inflicting pain while still receiving quality training to continually improve your own movements and “shave off” pieces of a technique until it becomes invisible. That being said, sometimes a little bit of a physical nudge (without injury) during training does let you know when you have to adjust your distance, timing, etc. in real time, allowing immediate adjustment and oftentimes quicker improvement.
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Hey guys now that the first few lessons have been released and we have our first batch of chats out I'd like to get some feedback from you... Let me know what has resonated or what you have questions about let's get a conversation going and help everyone level up. Find the course here: https://www.skool.com/budo-taijutsu-unchained-5673/classroom/fd08a63b
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1 like • Aug 22
I appreciate the current training videos viewed thus far and the level 1 video I’ve watched today. I always miss training with you and monster. ☺️ Learning from you, Rob and your other instructors over the years have given me a really good foundation of understanding your thought process during these discussions. I know I’ll have questions as I give these trainings additional thought and implement various practices and mindset shifts to alter my current thoughts a bit when it comes to these approaches. I’ll certainly share questions when I think of them. I’ve never been one to stay quiet as it hinders my knowledge expansion and practice implementation.
Episode 3: Kanamae Zero
“When you hesitate, you die.” It’s blunt. It’s uncomfortable. But there’s a reason that concept matters so much in martial arts. Hesitation creates space. Space creates opportunity. And opportunity belongs to whoever is willing to act. That’s why staying in motion—and more importantly, learning to initiate and maintain action from the very beginning—is so important. Not just in martial arts, but in life. This is something I’ve been working with for years through Shihan Rob Renner’s Zeropoint Training Systems, going back to when these concepts were first introduced. This newer concept of Kaname Zero, having confidence in yourself and confidence in what you’re doing, is so vitally important when training. Because none of the other nine matter if, when the moment comes, you don’t actually believe you can move on them. You can know the technique. You can understand the mechanics. You can train the movement over and over again. But if your mind hesitates, your body hesitates. And that hesitation can change everything. One of the things I think more people need to train regularly is eliminating what I call “dojo syndrome.” You know exactly what I mean. You square up with your training partner. You both get set. You make eye contact. They say, “Okay, I’m ready.” And then the technique begins. But real confrontation doesn’t work that way. There’s no reset button. No polite agreement that says, “Alright, we’re both ready now.” I’ve trained with plenty of people who are twice my size, have far more muscle than I do, and could easily pick me up and throw me across the room—which, by the way, they have. 😂 So I’m not relying on strength or size to eliminate the threat. I’m relying on the 9 training systems: movement, timing, structure, awareness, and the ability to act without hesitation. When you remove that expectation of preparation and make action and movement the starting point, everything changes. The expectations in your training partner’s mind no longer translate into what their body is experiencing.
2 likes • Aug 22
@Jason Byers, you’re most welcome. We are all here to not only learn from Dan, Rob and all of their instructors, but also share our own perceptions of the information to further our understanding and learn from one another as well. And yes, everything you said is a great place to start. The more you can implement these practices and thought processes, the faster you’ll see improvement in your regular training. 🙂
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2 likes • Aug 20
@Joe Honeycutt, you make good points. It’s up to us as homeowners to not only assess our house as a whole (layout, spaces for movement, tools within reach) from the perspective of our own personal offense/defense, but also from the minds of the attackers to anticipate what within our home could be used to prevent escape.
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