To my house and left a note on my car while calling me acting like he was coming into my house. Next thing you know he messaged my wife and cousin spreading more lies as they had been doing. My wife took what he said to heart. Now she thinks whatever he said is true, we get into an argument and she told me she had hated me for 5 years. I overreacted and punched a whole in my wall 12 feet away from her. She acted like I hit her and called 911. While the call is occurring I was in the background saying it's okay. Everything is alright. My son was not scared at all. But, I wanted him to know I should not have done that, and obviously I still love the girl. I have a horrible history with police, they have been corrupt and abusers of power with me since I was 14. She knew that. I end up going to jail for 2 full days. Got out and was angry, when I called her phone(the brand new model i phone I got her) my cousin, who i had kicked out of my house answered the phone. She had said something emotionally abusive earlier in the day and it upset me again. I told her to leave my brand new car and leave the apartment. (I shouldn't have) i also saw the paperwork she filled out that said, when asked does he have the capability to hurt you and child she wrote, probably he had a violent felony. She also wrote the managers name of the company I was in the labor dispute with. I got home and she had cleared the place like she was running from an abusive situation. My mother and I had faced many abusive situations when I was a child, this was not that. After that she puts an order of protection on my son and her and claims i jammed him against tub, even though she really did. I was charged with endangerment of a child. Then, i stupidly called her offering her the apartment and car. She had me arrested. I got beat up 3 times by the police department. They were completely unprofessional. Uncalled for abuse, just crazy they have power. Anyway, next thing i know they throw me in jail. I could not believe it. They refused to let me out. Refused to let me represent myself. Refused to allow me to go to trial. I sat in jail for eight months and lost all my property, thousands and thousands of dollars worth of sneakers, clothes, furniture, and who knows what else. We had top of the line everything. But during this time when I was extremely upset about my baby boy not being there with me and me not being able to speak with him. I called one of my friends and he really opened my mind and got me to let go of the fears I had. I had something occur. I had tried so hard not to be like my father my whole life, he was an artsy fellow who was crying all the time. I built an image of this big tough guy, athlete who wears matching clothes and was a super dad. I got my son up and fed him every morning, I came home, cooked him dinner. Fed him. Bathed him. Then would play with him and bring him to bed and read him books. When he was born I was the first person he met. I coached his teeball teams and am just am amazing father. I had always thought of my father as a dead beat dad and loser. I realized in that moment I had no idea my father's journey, I changed immediately. I realized my father was a much better man than I ever knew. He became my hero, I dropped the image and became the real me. This whole town essentially has been gossiping, first claiming i was on drugs , now that I am crazy. And this is a decent sized city- Buffalo, NY. Anyway, it was the most difficult and amazing time in my life. I lost my son and thought I lost my purpose, but a new purpose arose immediately. I understand now self reflection is one of the most valuable tools we have. I have started to spread the message in my own words about what I believe to be the solution to many problems with self and with the world. I believe we have an opportunity to create a better self and a better future for our children, a future where people are the priority over profit. If we can overcome the greed within, the greed in the world with dissipate as well.

Oh yeah, the owner and manager both pressed harassment charges on me and filed orders of protection, even though there are laws which prevent that. I actually have court Tuesday. I really don't want to sue them, but, maybe I should. I never wanted a lawsuit, I wanted to be left the f alone so I could work and feed my family. I have never seen such abuse and unprofessional behavior at any company before. It really is bothering. I think of it like that could be a single mom getting abused like that. I want to stop it. I offered to do hr virtually for them but he called the cops. They charged me even though the law says, intentionally violating a lawful court order EXCEPT IN CASES ARISING FROM LABOR DISPUTES.