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Life After Narcissistic Abuse

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26 contributions to Life After Narcissistic Abuse
Day 4: One Small Boundary
I delayed responding to some text messages.
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This is a great example of a small boundary, Reva. 💛 Delaying a response can be a way of reminding yourself that you don’t have to be immediately available to everyone. 🌿
Day 3: Practice Self-Compassion
I was trying to think of a self-critical thought, and nothing came to mind for today.
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I love this, Reva. 💛 Not every day has to be a struggle. The fact that no self-critical thought came to mind today sounds like a win worth celebrating 🎉
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@Reva Israel I love that you noticed that, Reva. 💛 The goal isn’t to never have a self-critical thought again—it’s to have more and more moments like these. Two days in a row sounds like a beautiful sign of progress. 🌿
A small win I didn't expect... 💛
Today, I attended one of my daughter's school events and her father was there. Even though it's been a few years since our relationship ended, we parallel parent and rarely have direct contact. I've seen him in passing over the years, but we haven't been at the same event together in a long time. As I was getting ready to go, I expected I might feel anxious or emotionally activated. I thought I might spend time thinking about what to say, how it would feel, or whether old emotions would resurface. But none of that happened. I simply showed up, enjoyed watching my daughter, and stayed present in the moment. For me, that felt significant. There was a time when being in the same space would have brought up a lot emotionally. Today, it didn't. A few years ago, I don't think I would have believed I'd feel this neutral. Healing can be difficult to measure because it often happens so gradually. Sometimes we don't realize how much we've grown until we're in a situation that once would have completely activated us, and we notice that it doesn't anymore. Today was one of those moments for me. What's a moment you've had recently that made you realize you're further along in your healing than you thought? 🌿💛
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@Crystal Joan Lee Thank you, Crystal. 💛 Your words mean a lot to me. And what a powerful realization you’ve had. What stands out to me is that you didn’t feel the need to defend yourself or convince him of your truth this time. You already know your truth. Choosing yourself doesn’t require his understanding, agreement, or approval. The fact that you were able to remain calm and let go of the need to correct his narrative speaks to how much growth has taken place. That’s not easy, and it’s a beautiful example of self-trust. Thank you for sharing your win with us. 💪🌿
New YouTube Video out!
If you are curious about no contact and what that means for you, that is what this video is about 🙂 -https://youtu.be/QtyJ1-9k7Qc
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@Reva Israel thanks Reva!
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@Crystal Joan Lee Crystal, that sounds incredibly difficult. ❤️ Grieving a relationship while still sharing the same space and navigating intertwined finances can make healing feel so much harder. You’re in a really challenging season right now, and yet you’re continuing to take steps forward. Picking up extra shifts, creating a plan, and focusing on what you can control takes a lot of courage. And I love how you ended your post: “I feel unsettled today; a bit anxious; but not defeated.” 💛 One step at a time.
Welcome! Start Here ❤️
No matter where you are in your healing journey, you're welcome here. Start Here 👇 Step 1: Visit the Classroom Begin with the Start Here module. You'll learn how the community works, where to find resources, and how to get the most out of your membership. Step 2: Complete the 5-Day Challenge Next, head to the 5-Day Nervous System Reset Challenge. This is one of the best places to begin if you're feeling overwhelmed, disconnected from yourself, or stuck in survival mode. The challenge will help you take small, practical steps toward feeling more grounded, regulated, and connected to yourself again. Step 3: Explore Your Membership Resources Depending on your membership level, you'll have access to different resources, lessons, and support inside the classroom. Be sure to explore what's available to you and move at a pace that feels supportive. How to Use This Community 📚 Classroom → Lessons, challenges, and resources 💬 Community Feed → Questions, support, and connection 🎙 Monthly Q&A Sessions → Guidance and learning together 🎉 Wins & Growth → Celebrate your progress, no matter how small Premium Members Premium members receive full access to the Circle of Connection™ Framework, my signature approach to helping women rebuild self-trust, understand their emotional patterns, and create lasting change. Introduce Yourself When you're ready, leave a comment below and tell us: ✨ Where you're joining from ✨ What brought you here ✨ What you're hoping to gain from this community Or simply say hello. You don't need to explain your whole story. You belong here exactly as you are. I'm so glad you're here ❤️ – Kassandra
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Thank you for sharing Reva! I'm so happy that you are here 🙂
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@Shannon Little Welcome, Shannon! 💖 I'm so happy you're here. Thank you for being here and for your kind words. I hope this community feels like a safe and supportive place for you as you heal and reconnect with yourself. 🌿
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Kassandra Malik
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Hi I’m Kassandra! I am a therapist and coach who helps women move forward from emotional & narcissistic abuse ❤️ Find me on YT: @kassandra_malik

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