In Chapter 8 of my book, Failure Breeds Success, I talk about what I call The Law of Five. Jim Rohn famously said: "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with." Most people assume he was talking about income. I don't think he was. I think he was talking about everything: - Your attitude. - Your ambition. - Your health. - Your integrity. - Your resilience. - Your loyalty. - Your standards. - Your expectations. Even the language you use and the excuses you accept. Think about a wolf pack. A wolf doesn't simply learn one behaviour from the pack: It learns how to think, how to behave, where it fits, what it contributes, what it tolerates and what it protects. The entire culture of the pack becomes the identity of the individual. Humans aren't that different. If you spend enough time around people who complain, you'll find yourself complaining. Spend enough time around people who constantly look for opportunity, and you'll begin to see opportunities everywhere. Spend enough time around people who read, learn, exercise, build businesses and challenge each other, and those behaviours become your new normal. The opposite is also true. If you genuinely believe you can spend years surrounded by criminals, drug addicts or people with destructive habits without being influenced, I'd challenge that belief. Over time, one of two things usually happens. You adapt to the culture... or the culture rejects you. Because groups naturally gravitate towards shared values and shared behaviours. If you consistently refuse to live by those values, friction is inevitable. That's why I believe one of the most important decisions you'll ever make isn't where you live or what you do... It's who you repeatedly spend your life with. Your environment shapes your standards. Your standards shape your decisions. Your decisions shape your future. So choose your pack carefully. And remember... You are one of someone else's five.