I’ve been sitting with something I want to share with you. I wrote a book — You Get What You Get — and I originally thought it would be published by the end of January. Then my mom passed away. I put everything on hold. When I picked my manuscript back up, I realized I needed to learn so much more about the self-publishing process. After watching YouTube videos and finding another Skool community, I understood I had a lot of work to do. That began the process of reaching out to trusted colleagues, inspiring entrepreneurs, and my guiding mentors to write blurbs. I sent the book to about 10 people, and almost everyone agreed to support me. One of them suggested I reach out to a mutual friend about hosting the launch. Before I could even ask — she emailed me first! She said she’d been pulled into the book and wanted to know if I’d like to host a talk at her place. All aligns when you identify who you are. You get what you get because you get who you are.

Here’s my ritual to set the enemy for editing and marketing my book. Full Moon vibe: visible, expressive, release + reveal. Quick flow: - Candle + music - Share/ship something (post, pitch, page, chapter, offer) - Release list: what I'm done carrying - Close: 'Luxury is alignment, not labels.' What are you done carrying?