Hello all ! I am a student of Michael’s Nine Stages Method and i would like to recommend him and his trainings to anyone who is interested in real change. MIchael has helped me unpack my core issues and old wounds and patterns which have hindered me till now. I have been able to understand my patterns of cheating and how i justified my behavior. I am becoming a new man and i owe Michael a debt of gratitude.

I just added a new guided video exercise and downloadable worksheet inside Stage 6 — The Justification. This exercise will help you investigate one specific moment when you crossed a boundary and trace the internal sequence behind it—from what happened beforehand to the justification that permitted you to continue. Do not investigate the entire affair at once. Begin with one moment, complete the worksheet honestly, and identify one pattern you can now recognize earlier. The purpose is not to justify what happened. It is to understand the sequence well enough to interrupt it before it reaches the final action again. Go to Stage 6 inside The Nine Stages Method™ to complete the exercise.

I recorded this because I want every one of you doing this work to understand something important: You can still turn your life and relationship around—but you must do it the right way. You cannot use more deception to repair the damage deception created. Even if withholding information or controlling the truth appears to work temporarily, it will eventually undo everything you are trying to rebuild. Your intentions must be pure, and those intentions must be demonstrated through the way you live: Complete honesty. Personal accountability. Truth—even when it is uncomfortable. This is not about becoming perfect overnight. It is about making the decision that you will no longer hide, minimize, manipulate, or protect yourself with deception. As you watch, ask yourself: Am I living honestly because I want to become trustworthy—or am I only doing enough to keep my relationship? Be honest with yourself. That answer will show you where your work begins.

If you’re here… it’s not by accident. You’re here because you know:What happened wasn’t random.And if nothing truly changes… it will repeat. But this isn’t about “not cheating.” This is about becoming someone who is:Loyal. Honest. Consistent. A person of integrity. Most people try to fix this by:• Saying sorry• Being transparent• Trying harder That’s not real change. Because cheating doesn’t start with an action—it starts with patterns. If the patterns don’t change… neither will the outcome. Inside, you’ll go through The Nine Stages of Infidelity™and identify exactly: Where it startedWhy it happenedAnd how to change it permanently Start here: Go to Module 0 — Start HereThen begin with Stage 1 — The Cause Take it seriously. Be honest. This works—if you do. Let’s get to work.