Years ago, I was helping the Spartans organization when they had 13 kids who hadn’t made any of the teams at the main tryouts. They asked if I would coach another team. I said yes. I spent two seasons with those players. Winning took time. A big part of our work was rebuilding confidence and changing what those kids believed was possible for themselves. One player still stands out. He had grown about six inches over the winter and was struggling to figure out his new body. Hands, feet, coordination—everything was catching up. He had been put in the outfield, but he was struggling there, too. As I watched him, I started looking at his frame and wondering what else he might be capable of. “Have you ever considered pitching?” His answer has stayed with me: “Oh no. That’s only for the good players.” Think about what that young man was telling me. He had already decided which category he belonged in—and which opportunities weren’t meant for him. We started working on pitching. He became our first winning pitcher. Over those two seasons, he recorded the most wins on our team. He pitched on his freshman team in high school, then spent the next three years on varsity. He eventually had an opportunity to play in college and chose a different path. Today, he owns eight Cinna-Buns, and is a successful business owner. I’m proud of his baseball journey. I’m even more proud of the person he became. I can’t claim coaching caused everything that followed, but I know we gave him an opportunity to see himself differently. That’s something we can do as coaches: believe in a player before that player knows how to believe in himself. An athlete who struggles can start carrying the belief, “Something is wrong with me. I need fixing.” Our instruction can give them a different framework: “I have value right now. I can learn. With the right instruction and an opportunity to work, I can grow.” That’s what I mean by coaching from a solution-oriented framework. We identify where the athlete is, what they want to accomplish, and the next step they can take. We teach skills without making their current struggles their identity.