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Despair
I am feeling very discouraged and depressed. My husband has expressed wanting to divorce. He’s still at home because he can’t afford to move out yet. He wants to act normal until he can afford to leave. I am pregnant. High risk. The stress and fear and anxiety I feel under is overwhelming. I have a history of preterm labor and I just need the strength and protection of God for this baby and my own sanity.
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Hey Danielle!💗 I dm'd you but also wanted to respond here for those in similar position who will benefit from anything in this message: I want to encourage you to begin applying the ROOT TRIGGER strategy anytime you have a disagreement or falling out with your husband and even based on past encounters you've recently had. It's going to help you to rewire/renew your mind & take control of your thought life. Here's what I know to be true: any words or action your husband makes that doesn't reflect the nature of Christ is not your husband, but rather he is being influenced by demonic spirits. The job of those spirits is to keep you bound and focused on the problem rather than the solution of what God has said in His Word. What's TRUE in the moment is not what's TRUTH. What's true of your current situation CAN change, but God's WORD never changes. So that's what you must anchor your soul on. And until you truly become the light in your home to drive out the darkness(meaning Jesus must be 1st in your heart even above your husband and children), darkness will remain. So, how do you become the light? You have to get as much Bible in you as possible because out of the abundance of what's in the heart, the mouth speaks. You have to cut out any secular music, books, tv shows especially while strengthening your walk & only listen to gospel music(guard your ear & eye gates), you have to only meditate on what God says in His Word and not what you see with natural eyes because the spiritual realm is MORE REAL than the physical one we live in. Nothing can happen in this realm, unless it is first activated and settled in the realm of the spirit. What you feed most will be the strongest. Feed your spirit man with the things of God and depression + despair has no place to gain territory in your mind. The ROOT Trigger activity in classroom will walk you step by step on how to cast down those thoughts and replace them with truth). You have to remove yourself from ungodly friends/family(not including those in your home) while you are strengthening your walk. The more you get the Word inside of you and begin to use the weapon of your mouth to declare it out of you into the atmosphere of your home, the less external factors will take a toll on your mind, body, soul, and spirit. And to your surprise, you will notice that the things around you will begin to shift when you shift because it's all about perspective.
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CARRY GOD'S VISION!!!
Happy & Blessed Wednesday, Godly Wives!! 🌸 I declare and decree that as you enter into the end of this week your vision is CLEAR, your faith is STRONG, and the enemy has NO power to steal what God has planned for your marriage in Jesus name!! (Proverbs 29:18) ⏬️⏬️ CARRY HIS VISION TODAY & ALWAYS!! We close out Vision Week today( if you've missed the past few days, go back & do the reflections). This week was about one thing: surrendering the vision YOU had — and picking up the one GOD designed. A marriage built on your own list and your own expectations will always disappoint you. But a marriage surrendered to God's purpose? Jeremiah 29:11 — "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end." (KJV) He has an EXPECTED END for your marriage. The vision is not dead. It may be in the valley right now — but dry bones CAN live again. And the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead is breathing on your marriage every time you invite His perfect Will over your own. You have to Hunger for it. Thirst for it. And apply your faith with action. 📝 Pray this: Lord, I repent for any way that I have built my marriage around my own vision and not Yours. I lay it all down today. Show me what You designed. Breathe a fresh wind on my marriage. I declare that I will not stop standing on your Word about my marriage, until I see it manifest in our home. In Jesus name. Amen. ✅️ Comment "I CARRY GOD'S VISION" if you're in agreement with that prayer!! 🙌🏼🔥 Now put action behind your faith today. @Laura Harris shared a powerful strategy, and she's inviting you to try it out. Make a list of all the negative things you "see" in your husband, then begin to look for evidence of things that contradict that list. Also, if you're in premium/VIP, visit classroom for the Old Nature vs. New Nature Wife & Husband Declarations. This will help you to know exactly what to look for in alignment with God's Word and help you to see His Vision more clearly. Remember, what you focus on INCREASES, so if there be ANY Virtue, if there be ANY good in your husband, focus on those things and that is what will increase.
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What you focus on, grows!!
Happy & Blessed Tuesday, Godly Wives!! 🌸 I declare and decree that the Word of God is the anchor for your vision today!! What God has spoken over your marriage is MORE REAL than anything you see in the natural in Jesus name!! (Romans 4:17) ⏬️⏬️ HIS VISION DOES NOT FAIL Most wives have had moments where they could see a glimpse of what their marriage could be. A moment of peace that made them think — yes, this is what God intended. And then something happened — an argument, a disappointment, a pattern that repeated — and that glimpse faded away. Truth is — that is exactly what the enemy wants you focused on. But here is what God showed me about vision: it cannot be based on what you SEE in the natural. And now we know — it cannot be based on what YOU wanted either. It has to be rooted entirely in what GOD has SPOKEN. Romans 4:17 — "God, who quickeneth the dead, and calleth those things which be not as though they were." (KJV) God CALLS things that are not as though they already are. That is how faith works. That is how HIS vision works. A wife who has God's vision for her marriage speaks to it as if it is already done — not because she is in denial, but because she knows WHO made the promise and she has chosen to trust His design over her own. 📝 Today's Challenge: Find one scripture today that speaks directly to what GOD says about marriage Write it on a sticky note. Put it somewhere you will see it every single day. Let the Word be the loudest voice in your home in Jesus name. ✅️ Drop your scripture in the comments — let's build a wall of the Word together!! 📖 P.S: If you've missed the reflections over the past few days, it's not too late to go back & catch up. We shift from vision to Intentional Intimacy on Thursday :) - Janiqua🩷💗
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IT SHALL COME TO PASS!!
Happy & Blessed Monday, Godly Wives!! 🌸 Take a moment to declare this aloud today: I declare and decree that the vision God has placed in our hearts FOR our marriage SHALL COME TO PASS in the mighty name of Jesus!! I will not give up, I will not grow weary, and I will not let the enemy steal what God has spoken in Jesus name!! (Isaiah 46:10) ⏬️⏬️ LET'S RECAP THE LAST 5 DAYS On Wednesday, I gave us the challenge of reflecting on these questions every day for 1 week: 1. How have I been seeing my husband — through God's Word or through my hurt? 2. What has the enemy been using to distort my vision of my marriage? 3. What does God's Word say about who my husband is and what my marriage can become? And throughout the week we looked at vision through gratitude on Thursday, through seeing your husband God's way on Friday, and on Saturday we got real about something most wives have never examined — whether the vision they carried into marriage was ever God's vision to begin with. The reality is — VISION is the foundation of everything. Before a wife can pray with power — she needs God's vision. Before she can speak life — she needs God's vision. Before she can stand in faith through a hard season without growing weary — she needs God's vision. Most wives are not struggling in their marriages because they stopped loving their husbands. They are struggling because they built their marriages on their own understanding — their own list, their own expectations, their own idea of what a husband should be — without ever consulting the One who designed marriage in the first place. And now God is doing something new. He is replacing the old vision with HIS. 2 Corinthians 5:7 — "For we walk by faith, not by sight." (KJV) As believers we don't judge things according to appearance, we judge righteously by His Holy Spirit within us. That is the work. And you did it this week. Missed a few days? Go back and catch up on your reflections before we move on to the "I" in VIRTUE (Intentional Intimacy).
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HE LIVES!!! AND YOUR MARRIAGE CAN TOO!!
Happy & Blessed RESURRECTION SUNDAY, Godly Wives!! 🌸 I declare and decree that God's vision for your marriage is REPLACING every vision you built in your own understanding!! Where you leaned on what you wanted, God is now showing you what He designed in Jesus name!! (Proverbs 3:5-6) ⏬️⏬️ YOU HAD A VISION. BUT WAS IT GOD'S? I want to take you back today. Not to the pain. Not to the arguments. I want to take you back to before you got married. I want to ask you something that most wives have never been asked: Before you walked down that aisle — did you consult GOD about what He wanted for your marriage? Or did you walk in with your own list? I will go first. Because I have been there. I remember before getting married making a long list of everything I wanted in a husband. He had to look a certain way. He had to provide a certain lifestyle. He had to make me feel a certain way. But not one thing on that list read — "a man after God's own heart, rooted in righteousness." The reality is I was young. I was naive. I was focused on the superficial things that felt important at the time. And none of my wants held up to what I actually NEEDED. Only God knew what I truly needed. But I never consulted Him. I never searched His Word to understand HIS purpose for marriage. HIS purpose for wife-hood. HIS idea of what a husband is supposed to be, do, and have. So for the first few years of my marriage — it felt like we were in the valley of dry bones. No life. No vision. No real foundation. And the only reason I stand here today — able to help thousands of wives all over the world — is because the same Spirit that resurrected Jesus back to life breathed a FRESH WIND on my marriage as I got fervent in prayer, fasting, and studying the Word to develop God's mind concerning marriage. Ezekiel 37:9 — "Come from the four winds, O breath, and breathe upon these slain, that they may live." (KJV) That same wind of revival is available to every single wife in this community.
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