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The Gay Men's Table
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11d •
The Broken Window Theory
I’ve read about something called the broken window theory. If you start leaving stuff where it doesn’t belong, it accumulates — and you train your mind that it’s okay. That’s why you should clean up after yourself. Keep things clean and decluttered in your house so your mind can be too. Can you relate?
3 likes • 11d
Having been in this transitional period of task paralysis to regular function, I agree. A lot of my clutter magnified the paralysis so it just kept getting worse until it was bad enough that the anxious energy overrides and let's me get the bare minimum finished. Comparing 6 months ago to now is such a drastic change that I can actually see how severe this has been affecting me. While on my leave, part of my therapy is taking time to de-clutter my house. I've gotten a couple rooms started and I can tell I feel better about where things are
16d •
Expert Call Monday 6pm PDT (06/15)
Noor is a licensed therapist & certified transformational coach, specializing in parts-based work, drawing on Inner Relationship Focusing (Focusing), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Inner Bonding. He'll be guiding us through an inner journey with our "gay part" — offering a brief introduction to this framework, guiding an inner journey, and opening the space for personal reflection and group sharing. Please bring a journal or notebook, and come ready to meet your gay self across the landscape of your history! This can be a genuinely healing and connecting experience. Noor will be offering this in both meetings next week — so, if you plan to attend both, know that each visit may open different doors or invite you deeper. Who is joining?
1 like • 16d
I will 🙂
May 31 •
Brotherhood Call (Month 1 - Week 1)
Open conversation, whatever comes up Monday 6pm PDT (06/01) ➡️ Just click the link in our calendar! Who is joining?
1 like • 29d
I'll be there 🙂
2 likes • May 24
I had a friend over, we played some MTG (Magic the Gathering), watched some movies, and now I'm preparing to deconstruct and create some new decks to play with 😬
0 likes • May 18
OMG I MISSED IT! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! 🎂🥳🎉🎈🎁
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@jacyn-benzinger-5619
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Joined Mar 23, 2026
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