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14 contributions to 🏳️‍🌈The "ME" Project🏳️‍🌈
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Can any of you tell me from your own experience when a relationship falls apart ?
2 likes • 19h
I was in a poly relationship and it's the only one I have any reference for, but mine fell apart when the communication changed. When I asked them if I had done something to make this shift, one of them denied it outright saying it was all in my head and the other tried to help figure it out because he noticed the shift too. Neither of them were communicating directly though. It was all "well i think x but person 1 said you disagree so I didn't bother bringing it up to fight about it". Ultimately, I backed out because I felt like it was my fault their 7 year relationship became rocky, and when I tried telling them my reasoning and how I was feeling that led me to this I was given an ultimatum that if I broke up with them there's no going back. I tried finding something to convince myself to stay, but they wouldn't be direct with me like i asked them to be. So I left. I learned that if someone isn't willing to communicate with you and work through each other's struggles, it will not last. I don't have a lot of definitive black and white stances on things, but this is at the top of my list.
1 like • 18h
@Marek Bartosz yeah I didn't realize how much that was a heavy trigger for me until a few years after that. I'm sorry it feels familiar 😅🫂
What’s your win this week?
Share one win from this week or an aha moment — nothing is too small.
5 likes • 19h
I got through the week without using any THC or drinking alcohol. I made a new rule that I can't drink or use until the end of the week/on weekends. It was rough 😅
Let’s shape this community together 🤍
I just want to share something from the heart for a moment. The last few calls have honestly meant a lot to me. There’s something really special happening here… the honesty, the openness, the way people listen and support each other—it’s not something I take for granted. I feel genuinely grateful that each of you is here and willing to show up as you are. 🤍 I don’t just want this to grow— I want this to become even more meaningful for all of us. So I’ve been thinking about how I can give more and how we can deepen what we’re already building together: • Hot Seat Call (once a month) We’d have 3 people per call, each getting ~20 minutes to share whatever they’re going through—so we can really listen, support, and help each other move forward. • Expert Call (once a month) Bringing in someone inspiring (relationships, health, mindset…), having a conversation with them, and then opening it up so you can ask your own questions. • Our regular community calls (2x/month) Just like now— one topic, real conversations, shared experiences, learning from each other. • Possibly recordings in the future So if someone can’t make it live, they still feel included and can take something away from This is really just me thinking out loud, not a final plan. I’d truly love to hear from you: 👉 How does this feel to you? 👉 What would make this space even more valuable for you? 👉 Anything you’d love more (or less) of? At the end of the day, this isn’t “my” community—it’s ours. And I want to shape it in a way that supports all of us. Thank you again for being here, for your openness, and for trusting each other. It really means a lot. 🤍
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I love all of these ideas and suggestions from everyone. I'm excited to see how this grows and what we do with it. I like the hot seat idea in particular. I like the idea of having a dedicated time slot for someone to just talk without interruption. I'm open to trying out whatever is presented.
Tonight’s Call at 6pm PDT
Who’s joining? ☺️ Dating/ Relationships is the topic. New topic on Wednesday will be about loneliness/lack of belonging!
1 like • 5d
I will be late but I plan to be there 😊
1 like • 5d
@Frederik Schaaf i think it'll be like 9:15. I have a class that ends at 8:45 and it takes me a bit to get home
Fun question to lighten it up ☺️
If your stress had a theme song, what would it be?
1 like • 7d
Currently, I'd say mine is Upside Down by Black Gryph0n and Baasik
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Jacyn Benzinger
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@jacyn-benzinger-5619
Easy going, open-minded, hopeless romantic, creative, adventurous

Active 14h ago
Joined Mar 23, 2026
INFP