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9 contributions to Small Goods: Change For Better
How to check your defensiveness?
I wanted to explore the defensiveness trap as it’s I’ve been working on recently. When I get defensive, it’s often a sudden heat, a need to justify, or a rush to prove I’m right. When I can catch that, I pause, take a breath, and get curious. What’s really behind this reaction? Where is this coming from? My strategies now are to ground myself, lean on a trusted connection, and return to self-awareness. Growth really starts with noticing these moments. So how do you know when you are reacting from that place & what are you management strategies?
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I’ve also been learning to deal with defensiveness the last year or so. Similar to Joel’s response, I found that my emotional response was often due to a feeling of threat or sometimes even pride. Lately if I feel I may be coming off defensive, I acknowledge it to the other person and assure it’s not my intention to be so, and try to openly resolve why I may be responding in a certain way and more often than not the other person can be understanding.
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It's been a couple weeks since deploying Skool. What are you finding? Using? Enjoying? Not enjoying? And more importantly- what do you want to see? What are you struggling with? Already got a fun piece of feedback from Lachie M- "I've been playing with my coffee machine at home and pulling better shots of coffee thanks to the coffee classroom". Sometimes the wins aren't always what we expect šŸ˜…
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Want to know what your coaches *really* think?...
For a while now, the Small Goods coaches have wanted to find a way to share more in depth conversations about their philosophies as coaches, life lessons & experiences, and in general, help you get to know them a bit better. In Small Good’s first ever podcast episode, Joel & Holly dive into the interconnected worlds of learning, coaching, and personal growth. From Holly finishing her physiotherapy degree and competing in the Night of Champions to Joel’s evolution as a strength coach, they explore the psychology behind starting something new, overcoming the fear of failure, and the transition from being a student to a teacher. If you enjoyed this content, please leave a comment, share your thoughts, and let us know if you want to hear about a specific topic from our team!
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Dharmesh is Back
Getting Dharmesh back to the gym in return I have to wake up at 4am (not so much a win)
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It’s so hard to get into an early routine! You’re both doing great! Hoping you’ll be able to stick with it into winter— you have plenty of time to lock in.
Making mistakes in clinical practice - other perspectives...
Hi team, I'm doing some reading, listening and research on how we cope, process and learn when we make mistakes - this is really from a medical/clinical place to provide support and education to mine site medics, but I wanted to open it up and ask others about this from different perspectives - what do you do when you make a mistake? How do you recover and what is your process and your next steps?
Making mistakes in clinical practice - other perspectives...
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I had a great discussion with @Paul Faix today (who I’m sure can and plenty to this discussion) and I brought up the idea of ā€˜Proud, not Pride’. Emotional maturity is understanding the difference, and understanding the balance of being proud of your work, but not let pride get in your way. I’ve made a few mistakes lately, and I’ve gotten better at taking it as feedback and not criticism, and in a weird way, picturing worst case scenarios in a way that helps me move forward by correcting the mistakes and learning from them… but it’s also helpful when you have bosses like Paul and Joel that are very good at delivering feedback.
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