I made this video the other day outlining a key element most of the women that follow me appreciate: finish the job, they don't want to plan or default parent, gestures are great, mental load is paramount.
I've requested breakfast in bed and specifically no flowers every year for 7 years now, and I always get flowers (grateful) and no breakfast in bed (perplexed) ... I've forwarded this email to hubby in hopes this year... perhaps I'll get my wish!